Guess it's just closure......this Christmas will mark 7 years in total dealing with all of this.

Been divorced since April. Funny enough my son noticed her and him. She came over and he scurried off like a cockroach.

She's been dead to me since before the divorce hit so this wasn't a big deal.

It's hilarious that the dude is like 5'8 and fat. I'm 6'2 and fairly in shape.

But, I mean who cares? We're divorced. Why did she act all weird and such. Oh yes because she's a cheating whore who has convinced everyone that I was the problem. Absolutely hilarious.

She tried to distract my son from looking for "Joshy".........she didn't know I saw him. But seriously, who cares?

I know if\when I find someone else I won't be hiding it.

I guess this is just closure fellas.

 

I did see a video a few days before and while none of what this guy says or does applies to my situation, and the commentator pokes fun at him throughout the video......but for my son and my faith in Christ I could have and would have easily been this fool.

Source

People can laugh and make fun all they like. When you have your wife cheating and your son calling you the affair partner's name.....trust me....they don't know how lucky they are.

 

My best advice to any of you in the early stages of divorce is to keep your emotions in check. Understand that they are intentionally trying to make you angry and trying to poke the bear so they can get you out of the house AND keep you from your kids.

Keep your head about you........the wave of anger will pass. You'll be thankful in the long run you didn't rip them limb from limb.

Divorce is a marathon.......don't let them win.

Stay strong fellas.......it gets so so much better. It truly does.

Have a great Christmas\Holiday.

All the best!

Cheers!