so, ill sum it up as best as i can: we have two little girls, 5 and 6, we divorced when they were 3 and 4. so its been a while.

She got with someone within a couple months after the separation. He was living in the house i paid for, around 3 months after we separated. ( i was staying at our rental house)

time passes, i fought for 50/50 custody and got it. etc, etc, we co parented well. and then her new guy leaves her. (this dude is named froy. My name is roy. I dont even know what to say about that)

anyway he calls me and asks why we broke up, what were our troubles, a "man to man" type talk.

we find that we have similar struggles in our relationship with her.

He doesnt want me to say anything to my ex wife. so i dont, its not my business. but theyre clearly not together.

His car is at the house every now and then, (i see the car when dropping off the girls, or my ex will be driving his car) so hes around, but i dont think hes living at the house.

So recently .....

you know what. as im typing this out. i think i know what advice id give a dude in my situation.

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yeah she def misses me. im a bad ass dad. and shes getting older.

she couldnt keep froy.

so froy is just laying down the dick

and im being the responsible dad.

and you know what? she made her bed. she can lie in it.

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thanks for coming to my ted talk. i just needed that off my chest.