Here I am again thinking I need to help her, difference is that I am finally realizing that I don’t have to help her with anything, considering she put herself in this position... I’ll be retaining my lawyer by Monday the latest, and making sure that he does all the communication moving forward. I feel like I get on here and complain. It feels like the only place I can vent. So sorry for this guys. From now, I’m only going to talk about the positive that comes from your wife upping and leaving with your boy one day to the next, and no longer focusing on how shitty I feel... time to focus on myself, my kids, and OUR next chapter.

Have fun with the lawyer.