And everything else! I'm giving her the house, the car, our furniture, half the bank account, 50/50 custody.
I told her I dont want to pay alimony or child support because of all of that, and that as adults, it would be great if each of us could support ourselves and our own households, and I would of course help her out, especially if its For the kids.
She still wants alimony and CS... I'm fucked! I make ~120k a year, and she works for cash under the table as a caterer. That's only part time, too. And we live in the bluest most pro mom state of all, CA...
Fellas, from what I can tell, I'm totally and undoubtedly screwed. Any advice?
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