Long story short my wife left me 2 months ago and has gone off the deep end imo. We had a very traditional family dynamic before the seperation (I tried to keep it that way, it was a losing battle with her) After a lot of back and forth she recently signed full custody to me with supervised visitation for her THANK GOD. I attribute it to the affair fog. Anyway, I'm getting better mentally to a point her crazy actions don't affect me as much when i find out about them . I was highly codependent and im working on detaching per my therapist. However, I worry about my son and what he will think of his mom's craziness once he's old enough to really understand. I dread the day he finds out she left her family to join a poly couple and their family. I dread when he finds out about her suicide attempt that happened when she was supposed to pick him up. I dread all the crazy things she will continue to do, she's off the deep end right now and I can only hope she improves miraculously. Thank God she only has supervised visitation. At least she can't drag our son into that mess, I made sure of that. But i dread the day when he learns how fucked up his mom is. Has anyone else experienced this? Will my son be devastated to learn this or will her limited involvement in his life reduce it? I'm so ashamed I chose this woman to be his mother, but she had me fooled and I've learned a lot from this betrayal.