You can't help someone who is broken. No matter how much love you pour into a bucket full of holes.

It wasn't for lack of trying though. (21 years)

To be perfectly honest........when healing from divorce I came to the conclusion that she just never liked me. How could she like me? She didn't even like herself.

 

That was pretty tough to take. I sat on it for a weekend. Gut wrenching.

 

But then I came to the conclusion......ya she may not have liked me but I have a son that absolutely adores me. And he's a chip off the ole block. So I felt better instantly.

 

Every day with my 3 year old son gets better and better. And the silver lining to the failed marriage is that we co parent well together.

 

And that's the kicker of this thing fellas. We get better and not bitter. We have to look in the mirror and know who we are and know who were aren't

 

If your divorce does anything, it should do that.

 

No matter where you are in your process.....I wish you well on your journey. Remember....it WILL come to an end. Keep your emotions in check as you walk through the suck.

All the best.