Long story short: two weeks post divorce, ex went on a couple dates starting V-Day. Was someone we obviously both knew and she didn’t want to tell me, but she told me who it was today and WOW! This guy is a total butcher who obviously has been a predator towards my EX just waiting. He has all the bad habits that the ex didn’t want me to do. I don’t get it?! But at this point he will not be around my kids, because he obviously sees a pot of honey.
So I think I am cool with it knowing that I am way better than this hack in all aspects. This could be exactly what I needed to get off the mat, get closure, and run this shit!