For me she had cheated. I tried to reconcile but she never changed. She kept a side dude and was a bitch to me the whole time. I finally had enough and just kept calling her bullshit out each and every time. Everything. This drove her mad.

 

You see, my situation is a little different.....I think I was dealing with satan himself. She was a psychotic covert narcissist. For many many years she got away with her shit and was hiding multiple affairs. But once I woke up.....you cannot unsee it. Every time we'd try to talk through her offenses she'd want to shine the light on me. Never accountable for anything, never taking responsibility, and never ever apologizing. In 20 years maybe....maybe 1\2 times did she ever apologize. Trying to have a conversation went no where.

 

So when it came time for her to sit down and say she wanted a divorce.....I (unknowingly) did the best thing you can do. I just said "okay". Boy oh boy was that a blow to her. She thought I'd get all emotional and beg her not to. I then followed up this statement with "is this what you always wanted"......another blow she didn't see coming. I said again "okay".

I simply got up and walked out of the room.

She was so upset by this that she cried all night long........so much so her face was disfigured the next morning. Was all swollen and jacked.

 

This was some time ago but I thought I'd share my story.

 

How did yours go down?