I've been going through a divorce case for almost two years, not that I wanted to but because my STBX wanted to uncover all my wealth/assets. Its a really stress-fully process, especially that I was faithful the whole time that I am going to loose my son, my home, wealth etc... I really dont know what to do, I am thinking about not visiting my SBTX and child so that the level of stress I am dealing with can be reduced.

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The only way for me to move on now and in the future is for me not to affiliate with my son and SBTX ever again. Not that I do not love or want to see my son, its a notion of seeing my two face wife taking me to court while living with her new boyfriend, in a house that's legally mine. I did make a proposal to take my son without the need for childsupport but she said no. My life is kinda doomed from now on, especially at times I think about my soon or my SBTX.

I'd like to know if anyone here ever felt like the only way to move on is to put your family (child + STBX) in the past? I know that it is self-fish to say that about a innocent child as well, but that's truely what's on my mind. I am emotionally broken with seeing them, and without seeing them. Time is going to heal the wound at least if I do not see them temporarily.