I had a bad judge and he ruled everything in my ex’s favor. I don’t see the kids much and I’m paying an exorbitant amount of alimony and child support so she can “maintain her lifestyle”. This means I’m paying her more than half my paycheck so she doesn’t have to work.

I have the option to file an appeal but the changes are slim. Do I quit now? I need to file within 30 days. I’ve already spent 100K on attorney fees.

Part of me wants to just quit my job so she gets nothing. My doctor has already recommended I stop working or find a lowered paying / less stressful job because of the stress from the divorce.

Im just spiraling and don’t know what to do. This all feels very unfair that a judge can just have a particular pov and essentially ruin someone’s life.