Feminist woman says "However women, as an oppressed group can not rape men, an oppressing group" and no feminists ever call her out.

Sometimes feminist rhetoric is so addle-brained and ignorant that it almost looks like they're arguing for the other team:

This powerfulness doesn’t have to be physical and it’s not so much power as privileged in a sense. Let’s list characteristics that determine if the rapist in question is more powerful than you are:

You believe that it’s going to be hard to be heard and taken seriously if you tell what’s happening to a third party

Check. This is a huge problem for men who are raped. Sexual assault of a woman is a tragedy: cue vigilante justice. Sexual assault of a man is comedy: cue the laugh track.

You are willing to handle pain for the other’s pleasure because you believe their desires are to be honored before yours

Check. This has been the popular consensus surrounding heterosexual sex for years and years. The woman's needs are the top priority. If the sex is bad, it's the man's fault. If something is wrong in the relationship, it's because the man did something wrong. Some men try so hard to please women that the term "pussy whipped" was invented for them. Happy wife, happy life. Etc.

You fear the consequences of not agreeing with them, either because you can get hurt if you protest or because they manipulate you into feeling bad, gaslight you, isolate you…

Check. While men have the strong advantage in physical violence, women have the strong advantage in social violence. That includes manipulation, gaslighting, social isolation, and everything else in the emotional abuse checklist. If a man falsely accuses a woman of sexual misconduct, nothing will come of it. If a woman falsely accuses a man of sexual misconduct, his life goes up in smoke.

You don’t consider it rape/sexual assault, because you are “letting it happen” (even if you don’t have a choice)

Check. How many people say men can't be raped because they "let it happen?" How many people think an erection equals consent?