"How To Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved"

I think nobody disagrees that there is a hysterical demonization of men pervasive in our culture as well as a denial of the fact that women are dangerous too but I don't want there to always be the need for lip service.

For example if I talk about men's issues I don't want to always have to add "keep in mind, women have issues too". I think that is destructive to the conversation.

Of course a part of me feels triggered by book titles like these given the cultural context that we live in. But at the same time I know women who always end up with dudes who are shady in type of way. If this book actually helps those women than I think it is a good thing. Many people feel attracted to abusive people because of all the abuse they have been through. That is all they know.

The problem is just that misandry nowadays is not stigmatized. You can be openly misandric and be celebrated for it. Hence the need for this sub but at the same time we are making progress. Johnny would have never won 10 or even 5 years ago. Every day men are coming forward talking about their experiences and slowly but surely men's rights inch towards the mainstream all the while misandrist are raging but it is getting better every day.

I look at misandrist today like I look at my Grandma saying the nword and talking about black people. She doesn't get it. She was brought up where these views were normal and this type of language common. I have tried explaining it to her but she doesn't understand. I guarantee you there will be people in 50 years saying stuff like kill all men and their grandchildren will roll their eyes. Here we go again.