Tumblr post gaslighting nerdy guys

This is pure absurdity. People, not just women but other guys too, always attack nerdy men for having nerdy hobbies. It’s always “you need to get a better, more outgoing hobby, go to the gym, dance, play sports bro, etc.” But if you say “You know what you’re right it’s because I’m nerdy” the narrative just totally changes on a dime. Now suddenly women have always loved nerdy hobbies so it’s just our personalities? It’s goalpost shifting plain and simple, so that no matter what we do we’re always in the wrong.

Granted, there are toxic nerdy guys that definitely fit the creepy neckbeard stereotype, but that’s all it is. A stereotype. They’re a minority. These same people would get mad if you said all women were a certain way so why is it ok to do it to men?

And while I’m on the subject, what is this obsession they have with guys saying “females”? This post makes it sounds like guys are walking up to girls and saying “hello female specimen”. I’ve never done that shit though, generally I use their names when speaking to them directly except when in an appropriate situation like discussing gender politics on a large scale.