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What is the most misandrist thing you’ve personally experienced? It can be either in person or online.

January 2, 2023
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Title What is the most misandrist thing you’ve personally experienced? It can be either in person or online.
Author russwriter67
Upvotes 34
Comments 32
Date January 2, 2023 2:21 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit /r/EverydayMisandry
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[–]griii2 43 points44 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

My therapist told me a man cannot be abused by a woman.

Needless to say I stood up and left.

[–]russwriter67[S] 9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Wow! Was the therapist a man or woman?

[–]griii2 28 points29 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Not that a man cannot be brainwashed by feminism, but this one was a woman.

[–]russwriter67[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m sorry that happened to you. I can’t believe a therapist would say that to someone.

[–]TheLWMA 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Was she young, middle-aged, or old?

[–]griii2 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Old witch.

[–]TheLWMA 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That might be the reason. She has old beliefs.

[–]ChimpPimp20 35 points36 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

A male professor separating the guys and gals and only allowing the women to speak. The topic was on “violence in video games.” Guess which game the teacher showcased.

Another teacher blatantly said “women are better than men.” No pushback and I’m sure he’s still there.

[–]Bobsempletonk 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Stardew Valley?

[–]ArticulateApricot 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, probably Animal Crossing. Although it could've been Candy Crush too.

[–]ChimpPimp20 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is that a school?

[–]Amazing-Bit6140 22 points23 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Had a teacher say, repeatedly, god loves women more than men.

My own fault for going to a religious school, I guess, but my fucking god all the cunts around me smiling and nodding really killed my desire for a religious wife.

[–]ArticulateApricot 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Given how men's evolutionary psychology ended up compared to women, i doubt she was all that wrong.

[–]Pachuko_Cadaver 21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It happens all the fucking time when you’re a father.

Taking my daughter to get her hair cut only to be quizzed by an extremely concerned hairdresser as to “whether I have Mum’s permission to be doing this”

Being followed around shopping centres and covertly filmed by concerned women when I’m out with my daughter.

Being Karened when I take my kids to the park and watch on from the side.

Being told by (mostly) women that I’m “babysitting” my children when I am in fact parenting.

Being told in family law proceedings that my children’s relationship with their mother is supremely important, whilst their relationship with me is optional.

It’s never ending.

[–]russwriter67[S] 9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I wonder what causes this kind of disrespect and animosity towards fathers. I find it very weird.

[–]Pachuko_Cadaver 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The misguided belief that a father is somehow a lesser parent perhaps?

There are also a great deal of bin-fire fathers out there, which probably doesn’t do much to help the perception of the rest of us.

[–]russwriter67[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There are terrible mothers who abuse or murder their children but that doesn’t make people have a lesser opinions of mothers in general.

[–]Pachuko_Cadaver 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re totally right. Perhaps it’s as simple as the biological process.

Mothers carry children to term, birth them, breastfeed them, a whole lot of stuff that fathers cannot do. Could it be that the prevailing attitude is nothing more than a primal bias?

Edit: grammar

[–]KoreoBace 19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I recently came to realize just how misandric one of my old schools was. The extreme bullying with the teachers not giving a fuck and technically helping the bullies was bad enough, but it took me a while to realize how it was literally misandry galore.

In 2nd grade, I had to deal with this group of girls who’d randomly gang up on and literally physically attack me every recess. At one point, I had enough and fought back, and I’ll let you guess now it went.

In 3rd grade, I had to deal with this piece of shit bitch who started scribbling on my chair with a fountain pen which she also used to stab my leg. I had enough and merely took the pen out of her hand, and I kid you not, she started crying like no tomorrow. And of course, it wasn’t until then that the teacher came and berated me for hurting her, even though no one said anything. He only assumed I hurt her, and shut me down whenever I tried to say something. And once my mom came to pick me up, I was forced to confess that I hurt her. I had to deal with her again when she started attacking me during recess, but this time, I immediately fought back. I’ll let you take a guess at how it went.

In 5th grade, I was walking to sports, and I was walking past the girls’ locker room when some guy opened it and ran off. The locker rooms were spread down a long hallway like:

girls - boys - - - - girls - boys - - - - girls - boys

———> ———> ———>

/\

I was walking along around this point when it happened.

Later that day, I found out that she told the teacher I opened it, and she berated me for it. And as usual, even though she at least had the decency to not immediately shut me down, she still completely disregarded everything I said. Even though I was walking with a friend as it happened who should’ve witnessed what happened. I only recently realized how I was falsely accused of sexual misconduct and probably this close to having my life ruined, but luckily this ended right here.

In 6th grade, the girls caused some mischief during recess, and the teachers only laughed it off and said shit like Lol usually it’s the boys who cause all the trouble that was odd ahahahaha or something like that. Unfortunately, I can’t remember what they did. One thing I do remember however was this one time when there was a thunderstorm during recess, and we were all told to go inside. As I’m in class, some angry teacher comes in with news that some people still remained outside. And of course, he only interrogated the boys. One of them pointed out the unfairness, but the teacher only replied with No it was only the boys. And there was one this time in art class when one of the girls kept messing up this one guy’s work to the point he flipped out. He and several other guys complained to the teacher, but all she said was Meh it’s nothing. This is the same teacher who once berated me after someone told her I said motherfucker outside class.

All this aside, there’s also the fact that this school was very disproportionate when it comes to gender. The female/male ratio was around 70/30 for the students, and literally 90/10 for the teachers.

[–]TisIChenoir 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's mild in comparison, but (I don't know what grade it would be in america? Age 7-8) I had a female teacher who was really, really hellbent on boys respecting girls. That meant no touching, no shouting at, nothing allowed. Not even saying things against girls. But the contrary was not true.

She also had a very strict "if you're still out of the class once the second bell rings, you're punished".

And of course, after the first bell, some girls would use that to stay by the door (inside the class) and block a group of us boys from entering.

We weren't allowed anything, so we started to stress out a bit. Comes the second bell, and we start to push the girls to be allowed to enter the classroom.

The teacher saw all this mind you, she was at her desk. What did she do?

We were punished for being outside after the second bell, and moreso for pushing the girls. And of course one of my friend said "it's not our fault, it's the girls blocking us", and he was punished for that too...

[–]russwriter67[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stuff like this is the reason we need more male only schools. The problem is there aren’t enough men who want to be teachers.

[–]russwriter67[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can’t believe I forgot about this when I wrote this post! In 2019, for my college’s May term, I took a course about Hollywood screen violence. Unfortunately, the class was almost always about male violence and the male professor kept talking “toxic masculinity”. Most people in the class didn’t seem to like that very much but no one called out the professor because he was so nice.

[–]WRAD120 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm in nursing school and most of those cunts in my class talk shit about their husbands/men. Also, they're more perverted than any group of men I've ever been around.

[–]CatacombsRave 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know if there’s a “most misandrist thing,” but I’ve been told that I could “dress (or do other things) very well for a man.”

[–]Kuato2012 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I acknowledge that circumcision is a divisive topic, but I would say that is the most misandrist thing I've directly experienced. To me, that represents an utter lack of respect for bodily autonomy and basic human rights. It was done because I was born male.

Predictably, there are lots of people out there who make excuses for it. That lack of empathy and defense of an indefensible practice is just more misandry piled on top.

[–]russwriter67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think circumcision is a lot less popular than it seems. The main reason it still happens is for “religious” reasons.

[–]redditistreason 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Receiving blatant misandry on a trauma sub and being gaslit by incel talk while the mods quietly approved probably counts.

I'd say it changed everything, but it was just more of the same.

[–]dr-korbo 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I heard a female friend say "If a guy is below 180 cm or is bald then he's not a man".

[–]nightvisioneyes 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The same women that say body shaming is a bad thing will make fun of guys going bald (genetics) which you can’t change either if you take drugs (which have side effects) or if you wear a wig. But tell them you need to lose weight, which is in their control and they lose it. I’ve never seen an exception to this ever

[–]designerutah 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

But if you mention an unhealthy weight for a woman you're a misogynist.

[–]ArgFela 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A Classmate of mine tried to kick me a couple of times in 6th Grade, Teacher (M) saw it and didn’t do anything about it, hell he laughed about it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd rather not talk about it tbh

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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