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Woman says seeing a man crying turns her off him - Twitter thankfully doesn't buy it

January 12, 2022
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Title Woman says seeing a man crying turns her off him - Twitter thankfully doesn't buy it
Author politicsthrowaway230
Upvotes 58
Comments 20
Date January 12, 2022 11:33 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]politicsthrowaway230[S] 16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

While it's disheartening to see the 1K likes, it is quite reassuring to see a substantial number of people are not buying it at all and are rightfully calling her out for her reinforcing of gendered expectations and total lack of empathy.

[–]Terminal-Psychosis 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

There's nothing to "buy". Those "calling her out" are either male, or dishonest.

Most women are disgusted by signs of weakness in men. This is not "gendered expectations", but hard-coded instincts that have evolved over millions of years.

They don't have a choice to react like that. It's simply a law of nature. Best to learn to deal with reality, instead of uselessly shaking your fist at the injustice.

Yup, life ain't fair. Men have to deal with a lot. This is one of them.

Protip: if a woman tells you to open up and cry more, it's a trap, a test. Do it at your own peril.

[–]politicsthrowaway230[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I can't really be bothered living life suspicious of anything a woman tells me, taking the position of "they'll admit to thinking like this or they're lying". I know plenty of women that do not fit this mould. You could say they've all deceived me, but what then? Doesn't seem like a very fulfilling worldview to buy in to.

I don't really buy into "hard-coded instincts". They might exist, but do not seem very important, frequently these instincts are betrayed. (existence of dominant women, submissive men, women who kill their children and so on)

[–]Itrusttheinternett 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think it's 50/50, some women don't like men crying, the other half enjoy the company of men who expresses their emotions this way.

[–]politicsthrowaway230[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm bad at judging these proportions. The most empathetic people I know are women, some fitting the kind of "mum friend" type and are hard to dislike, but on average I have never felt a significant difference. The people who I connect deeply with are generally potential romantic partners who have all been women so far, so this may also skew it.

I've known one woman who did not like displays of emotion from possible partners (someone who I was interested in at the time, didn't work out for other reasons). Can't remember exactly what she said but other friends (mainly women) confronted her about it.

Bear in mind also I'm in my early 20s at a college with a very very heavy leftist lean.

[–]duhhhh 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Misandry or honesty? How many men have experienced getting treated badly suddenly, dumped, or cheated on shortly after crying infront of their SO?

[–]politicsthrowaway230[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Both? If you look through the thread there's plenty of misandristic tropes to supplement the initial tweet. She had the opportunity to condemn this kind of thinking but instead clings on to it for dear life and jumps through rhetorical hoops to try to justify herself.

She's totally unapologetic about this, and doesn't really recognise how it could be construed as misandry, definitely reflects on her views on men in general. Her attempted reassurance is empty to me.

[–]Jonesw16 3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Don't cry in front of women even if you're grieving.

[–]politicsthrowaway230[S] 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I feel quite lucky in that I couldn't give a fuck what such misandrists thinks about me.

[–]Jonesw16 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Respect.

[–]silverado1995 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Whats the point of being around them if you cant even be human

[–]Jonesw16 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

You've got mates, family or yourself to cry to. Women hate men that cry. I guess the only reason to be with women is because your biological urges for reproduction and companionship. Being with women requires constant peak performance, any slips or cracks in the armor and you're out! She replaces you with a new man.

[–]silverado1995 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

My point still stands. What is the point of even being around them if we cant even be human beings in their presence, always wearing a mask and never allowing that mask to slip. Sounds exhausting tbh. I dont want kids anyway, and i can get companionship from a dog.

[–]Jonesw16 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Maybe if you don't want a family, then there isn't a point being with them. Or just be friends with them.

[–]silverado1995 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I cant be friends with someone who expects half the population to not have emotions lol, let alone one who cant be empathetic to my struggles

[–]Jonesw16 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point, don't show any signs of struggles to love interests at least. Women will never be empathetic to any struggles a man goes through, she sees them as broken and replaceable. There can be mates or family to turn to though.

[–]Terminal-Psychosis 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is true for the vast majority of women.

Signs of male weakness produce disgust in them.

This isn't anything willfully malicious on their part, it's built into their DNA through millions of years of evolution.

It isn't going to be changing any time soon either.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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