For about 3 years now I have been baffled by men. I could not understand their game or approach but there was always a common theme. I’m from a smaller Midwest town. I knew this common theme in a small area could not be a coincidence but it was utterly baffling.
Many would literally only attempting to “logistics only” message me, or briefly chat until they offer up a last minute house date request (of which I refuse nicely and suggest a drink/activity out which they almost never follow through with). Or, they’d quickly attempt to begin a sexual conversation. Never did the dating apps thing. Finally, about a year and a half ago, I found the answer on Reddit. They were all operating on hard Redpill mode as best they could.
I’d just like some advice on how to actually get to know men who have all seemed to take their Reddit philosophy way too seriously to make any real human connection.
That’s what (real, adult) humans all crave. Genuine human connection. Where’d it go?
Even in many in-person encounters I’ve finally recognized from the past and present situations many men around my age have been too preoccupied trying to be “stoic” and “maintain frame” to have any real, interesting, conversation with depth. *YAWN
I’m just sad.
A Note for the Exredpill disbelievers:
We all have internet access. We’re learning the tactics. You’re not getting shut down by 6’s because they think they deserve 10’s. Let us know when you want to be human again.
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