• Long story short, I've been deep in TRP's holes for a few years. I've succumbed to MGTOW so-called 'philosophy'. With confirmation bias from trust issue I had for so long, emotional trauma and all, it got worse. AWALT, Alpha fuck beta buxx yadda yadda, and all of those catchphrases.
  • But one day (you may call it luck or fate, but I believe it's my own effort), I decided to get to know this one woman, and everything started to change.
  • Before you misunderstood or anything, back when I was still brainwashed, I've set a certain criteria of woman that I want to get to know, and it's totally unrealistic (in my country because of religion, culture, and all). I thought that kind of woman (or my dream girl) didn't exist. But I found her. She exists.
  • We started to know each other (I was still skeptical because she is heavily tatted up - mind you, if you ever been in the TRP community, they told you to stay away from girls/women who have tattoos due to impulsive decision-making they said). But she's not impulsive. She's into tattoos for artistic and aesthetic values.
  • But as we know more about each other, we share the same POV, we have the same belief, she is what my past-self (before MGTOW) ever dreamed of. We bond easily, the chemistry flow effortlessly, our level of understanding is on par with each other. And there, the revelation came. My eyes were opened. I've been blinded by psychological biases to cope with the fact that I haven't been searching hard enough for the woman of my dream.
  • This girl I'm currently dating (and hopefully would be my future partner in life) is helping me with all my issues. May I remind you that she also come from a broken family (TRP would say that you should only date girls from stable family etc) but she's willing to lend a hand. She's a healer and a keeper. Her past or family doesn't dictate her future and her self-worth.
  • Last but not least, I've learned that everyone wants to be treated like a human. We are not objects, trophies, scores. What we project onto the world is what we truly are, internally.

I wish you all the best. May you find the life you're looking for.