I recently got out of a long-term relationship and started meeting new people. I mostly use OLD and it's shocking to me how early most guys expect sex. I was texting with a guy for a week and the first thing he does is inviting me on a date... to his apartment. I suggested that maybe we should go to the park or another public area. He agreed, but once on a date he kept suggesting us to go back to his place.

Another guy invited me to a restaurant. He started making weird comments I quickly associated with red pill negging and spent a good time talking about his business. At the end of the night, he asked me to come to his place. I decided to give him another opportunity in case he was just nervous and told him that I'd rather wait a bit. He flipped on me and told me that I was wasting his time.

The last guy I met was more chill. He invited me to his place pretty early on, but didn't insist when I said "no". Things with him didn't progress for a different reason, but he was good.

So ladies, how long do you wait for sex? How do you weed redpillers or sexist men in general?