Thoughts on this.

I’ve never aligned fully with a specific pill philosophy but rather thought of them as parts to a whole. And I view for any partner of any gender not just men. I also don’t view men as men or women as women but rather view each person as there own person with specific motivations drives etc.

Red Pill: Is all about mindset. Focus on yourself. You are the only person who can love you no matter what. (I.E: You hurt others and they leave you or someone falls out of love with you, etc.) If you focus on yourself and someone joins you that is great but if not it is not the end of the world. A partner should not complete someone but rather compliment them while they work on completing themselves. Know and understand how people give off attraction signals. Do not reward bad behaviour by doing more or trying to please. If someone treats you badly do a little less then what you did for them before but understand bad behaviour is subjective so seek clarity first. Self improvement is the fastest way to overcome depression and never lose yourself. If someone loved you but wants to change you, they did not love you for you but rather what they thought of you or what you could become. Never change for someone unless that change involves improving their life while not sacrificing yours or to correct your own bad behaviour.

Blue Pill is all about reward. People love to be rewarded and appreciated when they have earned it. So when they do and when they show these qualities and actions themselves (part of earning it) give back and you will receive tenfold. Qualities include love, more than general respect, loyalty, vulnerability, openness, gift giving, pleasure enhancing (not just sexual) non sexual intimacy and attention, more than general care compassion, long term relationship, marriage, etc.

MGTOW is simply risk assessment and understanding the types of indirect and direct abusive partners out there. Some important lessons. If someone commits to you for something other than attraction there is a higher chance it won’t work out. If you are the higher earner know the laws around divorce and prepare yourself. As long as marriage is tied to the government there is an extremely high risk in investment if you make more than someone else. Some people out there do just want to use and abuse you and some where abused themselves. It has become their nature.

Black Pill: If you have reached this philosophy you are most likely severely depressed or experiencing mental health possible psychosis. Seek medical help immediately.

My own conclusions based on my journey in studying psychology and working to become a psychologist: The more and longer a person has had primary needs deficiencies in life, the more likely they are to be more biological in nature than non biological. The natural law of evolution states everything is either devolving or evolving based on how they positively or negatively interact with people and their environment. Everyone has something that is wrong with them and usually relates childhood trauma and involves personality or attachment styles. Men and women are made to be put against each other to hide who really rubs the world (The corporations that feed this war) To be completely unplugged from societies conditioning we must value our individuality more than our gender or sex.

I could keep going as I love talking about this stuff and I may have added my own spin on things. But I am a high inversion thinker and I tend to try and find the kernels of usefulness in everything while throwing useless stuff out in the trash.