It seems normal for a guy to be desperate but I think women get overlooked because they can get sex whenever they want. The thought that they might have trouble and are desperate to find a guy sounds counterintuitive. Women probably get overlooked because some horny simp will always be available and blind to it. You see so many dating advice geared towards men that it's no wonder why we don't see women as having difficulty. I just find it interesting how it's always the dude who has trouble and woman have it easy.