Do Red Pillers live fake lives

daria1994 · 2021-05-05T01:09:56+00:00

The reality around you will give you the best answer. Ask your parents how big are the age gaps in their friends’ relationships? Stalk all the cute girls from your school or work. Determine how many of them flaunt much older boyfriends online? These TRPs claim it’s so commonplace, but I never see it around public places in Eastern Europe or Scandinavia. The only girlfriends I know who’ve done it were sugaring.

BajaBlast90 · 2021-05-05T04:15:10+00:00

This is a really good question, and I think the answer is not simple.

Are older men obsessed with younger women because they missed out on that stuff in their younger years? I always see comments from them saying how they are in their late 40s and 50s and look 20 year younger and have 6packs and make 6 figures while dating 19 year olds but i never see proof of this stuff and when i came around and asked could they prove it they proceeded to ghost me or say that they don't have insta or fb.

There are many types of men, even varying types of older men. Men like the ones you described DO exist. They are not as common as RP would lead you to believe. But they do exist. You tend to find them in more affluent areas, but they might also show up in surprising areas. If you go to your average joe American town/suburb, this guy is a rare sighting or just doesn't exist.

If these types of guys were common, people would start to take notice, but they aren't.

Do the guys who claim they pump and dump most nights of the week actually being honest because to me it seems they are basically making it up to make them seem legit to other guys in online forums who they will never meet so that they don't have to prove anything.

One of the first things you need to realize about the internet is that a lot of users lie online. And if they aren't lying, they are exaggerating situations and/or leaving out key details in stories. People go on forums or sites like Reddit and lie about everything - their relationships, their jobs, who they are, their accomplishments. Maybe they're lying to themselves, or maybe they're lying for the thrill of it. Who knows.

The anonymous nature of these sites makes it easy for anyone to craft inauthentic stories about their lives. When you're browsing a website with anonymous users, never take any personal stories at face value. There is no way to verify that anything they claim is 100% true. (This goes for any subreddit or forum, not just strictly RP areas online). It's up to your discretion if you want to give someone the benefit of the doubt.

That being said, I personally knew a guy who wrote a few articles for a very popular red pill blog. He liked to take "creative liberties" with his descriptions of his life. He really painted himself as some alpha male who pulls a ton of women and has an interesting life. Truthfully, his life is lackluster, he isn't that great looking and he is struggling to find work right now. As a side note, I don't think he's a bad guy. He's had a lot of personal demons and issues to work through. He grew up with a struggling single mom and was an alcoholic for several years. Some people latch on to toxic coping mechanisms, and I think redpill was his unhealthy outlet.

onlyforsex · 2021-05-05T14:37:28+00:00

I'm sure some real stories exist but most of them are just fantasies. TRP is one big ass collaborative fanfiction.

Swordfish1762 · 2021-05-05T11:13:57+00:00

The biggest problem with these Red Pill guys is that they are not all they claim to be. Yes, a Red Pill guy thinks he is a physically fit, great looking, high earning catch that ladies should be chasing. In reality, he did join a gym and probably did get in a little better shape and even lost a few pounds, however, he is far from the Greek God Body he thinks he has. Yes, he got a haircut, maybe even a new style, but that only goes so far. He may have bought a few new clothes to wear when he's out and about looking for women, but that does not hide the fact that he's just a normal guy, and unfortunately his newfound Red Pill attitude of "I'm so great" makes him a total turn off, except maybe to the lowest common denominator of women.

Many of these older guys are coming out of a long marriage and want to pick-up where they left off twenty-plus years ago, which means they want twenty-something year old women. What I see is that these women are absolutely not interested in them if they are just of average looks and resources. The ones who do have the resources give the new girlfriend whatever she wants, but since she's a gold digger, she is usually off with someone her own age behind his back. And when the younger woman does decide it's time to marry and settle down -- she wants a hot guy her own age and she drives out of the old guy's life in the nice car he bought her.

Oh, and of course, he has a kick-ass car! Red Pill guys are obsessed with what they drive, which may be one reason they think so highly of themselves. The rest of believe it's just transportation that gets you from point A to point B.

2021-05-05T17:19:26+00:00

Lol, none of these losers is pump-and-dumping every night.

Once you reach 33-35 all you want to do us sleep after work.

Yesm3can · 2021-05-06T09:50:48+00:00

how they are in their late 40s and 50s and look 20 year younger and have 6packs and make 6 figures while dating 19 year olds

...I feel that every country, no matter how conservative or liberal, no matter how poor or rich, no matter whether the country is in war or not, are plagued by these kind of desperate mid aged men in their mid age crisis.

In Singapore where I am from, these men hang around malls and often being ridiculled as 'uncles shiny forehead'.

I think there was a thread in askwomen about how these men are called in their home countries. They are called different names of course, but surprisingly (or not so surprisingly) all countries have these.

Classic_Touch · 2021-05-05T14:31:51+00:00

Most are not truly bad people and you hit on a few great examples of what is wrong with redpill. I actually believe in some of the things that are associated with redpill. It just has been tainted with hate and lies. Some men taking it to the extreme and the few redpill women who allow it. Not all redpill women are push overs. Sadly I also see this type of behavior on the left. It is just more excepted at the moment. They hide behind words as "polyamorous" "BDSM" or " kink". Then everyone goes O we can't shame those.

StevenStooch · 2021-05-05T03:13:53+00:00

JFC dude, figure out how to use some punctuation. These are some epic sentagraphs!

Title	Do Red Pillers live fake lives
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Date	May 5, 2021 12:48 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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