It's funny how often women are mocked for having "daddy issues" and ending up in bad relationships, etc. But what about men with mom issues? Do you think many of them are falling into this red pill stuff? Especially the young guys who are still teenagers and have absolutely no real experience with women outside of their moms.
I bring this up because the man who nearly beat an elderly asian woman to death was on parole for murdering his mother. Sounds like he has issues with women (outside of being racist of course). Also, you see this pattern with serial killers. They had an abusive mother and then ended up killing and raping a bunch of women.
It seems men have a harder time separating women in general with their own mothers, like they just can't see that all women are different.
I was severally abused, physically, emotionality and mentally by my stepfather when I was growing up. But I didn't project anger and resentment towards men in general about it because I know every guy is different.
So do you guys think this could be a case with the hostility and resentment towards women in the redpill community to some degree?
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I think in some situations, they do have mother issues. However, I think a majority of them have been emotionally burned by romantic partners and interests countless times. Between failed relationships, and rejection entirely, it starts to wear them down and make them resentful of women.
Father issues for women isn't just a myth they use to degrade women, a lot of women are very open about their father issues and generally speaking, these types fail at relationships in the long term because they didn't have a stable father figure growing up. It can work the same way with men that have mother issues, but i imagine the majority of it is because they keep failing with women. It can really burn a guys ego when he is told that he's great and all, but she's just not ready for a relationship...only to find out a week later she has a new boyfriend.
It's resentment and anger. They all laugh at beta males, but almost everyone in the community is a beta male, attempting to learn how to attract women, and some of them actually learn and have success once they identify their own insecurities and work on it. But then you have also have thousands who simply can't make progress and instead of self improvement, they resort to degrading women out of frustration for their own short comings.
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Thats a good question but it would be difficult to say everyone of them were just shit partners. Divorce rates don't lie, the women initiate 70 percent of divorces and most of the men claim to be blindsided by it, and their wife moves on quicker than he does.
Technically, i guess you could say these men are shit partners, but not always for bad reasoning. Being a bit clingy or needy can be extremely off putting to women, and while the guy is super nice and all, he is still going to be rejected. While we can say this is certainly a character flaw of the man, he typically does not realize he's doing anything wrong. From his perspective, he is showing love and affection the way he thinks it's supposed to be, not realizing how he is coming across.
A lot of this has to do with the fact women have multiple options while most men have a scarcity mindset. Studies also show that women move on a lot quicker, where as men do not heal as quickly from the heartbreak and this goes back to the difference between which gender has multiple options and which one does not. It's harder for them to move on when there isn't 10 to 20 women in their inbox. lol
This is called exredpill, it almost sounds as if you're self projecting and reflecting on your own past behaviors and if that isn't the case, then what makes you think they are all just shitty? Do you think people just become shitty on purpose? or perhaps a lot of bad things happened to get them in their current mindset?
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You both bring up good points. It reminds me a bit of dialectical materialism "political and historical events result from the conflict of social forces and are interpretable as a series of contradictions and their solutions. The conflict is believed to be caused by material needs."
As for young men going the MGTOW route, as long as they are focusing on themselves and their money and success, there will likely come a point when they decide to try dating. It is actually better if they get their life in order first, because dating while you're still learning and growing and adapting to adult life often leads to being broke, working 2 jobs and taking care of kids. There is plenty of time for them to explore the dating world in their 30's when ideally, they have their shit together, confidence, and sense of direction in life.
Also, outside of seeing it all on the internet, do you guys even see this type of behavior acted out in person? i don't believe i have watched any guy ever talk to women the way they might online. I've saw redpill rage videos, but they seem like isolated situations.
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