Do you really want to spend your entire life thinking about this stuff?

cabsmom2020 · 2021-03-29T01:00:52+00:00

I think you're right. I honestly think if the last man I dated left red pill thinking we could have been a great couple.

It's very cultish... take some assumptions mix it with some truths and half truths, then add a dash of suspicion, while ignoring other truths and pushing aside the good things... and BAM- you have a toxic mixture of negative thinking.

xvszero · 2021-03-29T15:29:12+00:00

Hmm. Well, to be fair, most of them were miserable BEFORE they became red pill, which is a large part of why they became red pill.

2021-03-29T03:51:16+00:00

You don’t need some imaginary pill to “go your own way”

CamilleNous · 2021-03-29T07:28:56+00:00

Such a waste. Much rather gardening

GoodFaithSockPuppet · 2021-03-30T04:59:02+00:00

Balance, Depth, Nuance, and Growth are pillars to more tranquil moments of peace.
Those who are consumed by their ideology, regardless of what it is, become unhappy as it places barriers between them and their desires.
The "Red Pill" is just another philosophy which suffers from the same thing all philosophies do. Human Adherents.

username_6916 · 2021-03-29T01:48:46+00:00

I think you have your cause and effect backwards... Folks who are happy with their relationships don't bother to seek out something like 'Red Pill' advice on the matter in the first place.

mikebosscoe · 2021-03-31T20:40:05+00:00

All red pillers wear a mask. It's quite pathetic how obsessed they are with women and how much of their power they give away blaming women for their own issues. I rarely hear any of the more popular ones interview people that have a differing view point. They always gather a hoard of their own kind together so they can reinforce eachother's bogus claims.

I would love for them to have a happily married man on the show, of course that would never happen because they're completely anti-marriage because they're all divorced for reasons I've never heard one take any blame for.

GuidanceOverall1921 · 2021-04-01T02:36:32+00:00

Hi, I just dipped my toe into the red pill pool (Mostly regarding to 9-5 grind). It is very conflicting, I’m all for equal rights across the board because in turn this helps men move away from the old age thinking that we’re the providers. I’m now divorced and it is just as much my fault as hers, we just had different values. But in saying that she stills acts entitled and plays victim (we have two kids 50/50 custody). I think some woman are not helping woman’s cause! Be your own boss go get all Beyoncé/Kim kardashian and make the bacon for your kids and your self. Any way men just need to have compassion, be free, listen, speak up when your un happy, and be assertive the right woman will come to you. If you have to have game and be the size of the Arnold Swarznagger to get ladies your doing it wrong.

defo18 · 2021-03-29T13:51:30+00:00

I have been played by three women in my life and now I am left with trust issues and I do not trust most women now this is not very healthy and not every woman is horrible but you can see why some men will probably be thinking about this not because they are evil or cultish but because of experience.

if I had listened to the red pill or even knew what it was during all these times I probably could have saved some relationships or save myself some embarrassment

No_Ad_6291 · 2021-03-29T20:33:08+00:00

Nice to meet you. You’ve just met one. Yes, it is tough to start with, because a lot of society is in fact a cult of Disney. It is tough being deprogrammed from that.

Environmental-Look86 · 2021-03-29T23:56:52+00:00

I agree. You can take or leave some things here and there but the same sentiments are pretty much regurgitated amongst the RP “community”. It gets to a point where it’s sort or cringeworthy, and basically you get the same type of feeling as a religious zealot trying to convert you.

MrTman888 · 2021-03-30T15:51:25+00:00

Currently processing this shit out of my mind now. Coming from a dysfunctional background trp has actually educated me on the facts of sexual dynamics, thus I have become a better man. But god damn it takes you to another level of toxicity. I wish I would've just filtered out the useful info and skipped the bitter shit it feeds to you. At this point fuck these cunts.

Title	Do you really want to spend your entire life thinking about this stuff?
Author	Jonaberry_556
Upvotes	78
Comments	32
Date	March 29, 2021 12:34 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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