Honestly i give up on all this dating stuff i accept imma be alone forever

Stidox1 · 2022-10-04T02:43:02+00:00

Have you considered creating friendships with women instead of wanting to date them? Like real friendships, not the type where you wanna fuck them.

If your answer to that is no, then it’s not women who are the problem, it’s you.

tinasnow-poty · 2022-10-04T01:51:09+00:00

“Everyone I meet comes with some baggage from the past” sounds like you got your own baggage bro. Anybody that’s had a break up before has baggage. Heck even people that have never dated have baggage from their childhood. Dating is hard. But I respect your choice to chase the bag, if that’s best for you that’s totally cool too.

crypto_druid · 2022-10-04T04:51:42+00:00

As someone who was just used as a fuck boy for most of my life I can relate to the frustration you feel about being sideline guy, at first I thought it was great but after a while I started to wonder why I wasn’t worth more than just sex to women. now I’m older I understand that I wasn’t really relationship material, I was very much fun time material due to my party lifestyle and reputation but I was not the stable kind of guy that women would want to bag.The interest you get from others is always related to what you have to offer. If a man only has money, that’s all women will want, if a man only has fun to offer, that’s all they will want, if he has security and stability then women who want that are going to find him.

ultimately, I believe that a guy needs to have more than one dimension to attract women who aren’t one dimensional, being one dimensional leads to being used IMO, I don’t think being wealthy is a necessary component, but hard working, goal orientation and fun energy are a good combination.

incredulitor · 2022-10-04T02:53:44+00:00

OK. Genuinely hope that whatever comes out of this decision, moving through the point where you're at now is on the path to your long term happiness. How can we help?

crypto_druid · 2022-10-04T04:44:38+00:00

Focusing on yourself is what every man should be doing. When things are going well in your life you’ll find more opportunities to date.

zapadz · 2022-10-04T05:49:22+00:00

I can send you resources on how to be better at dating and meet someone without baggage or resources on how to not be interested in dating anymore if you are interested.

eurmahm · 2022-10-04T15:15:19+00:00

Do you realize that you also come with baggage from the past? “I have decided that I want a girl with zero baggage (which is impossible because, life) even though that person literally doesn’t exist, so the hell with dating.” That’s a massive matching luggage set with all the accessories you are carting around there.

So why should a woman want to deal with that baggage?

In reality, everyone has baggage.

If you are trying to hit up girls right after they get out of a serious relationship that ended badly, of course they are still sad/upset/hurting (!), and of course you will be the rebound. That kinda sounds like what you have been doing.

Have you ever been nice to a girl just to be nice, not because you thought she might date you? Do you have female friends that aren’t women you are hoping to bang later?

Title	Honestly i give up on all this dating stuff i accept imma be alone forever
Author	CheetahMinimum7290
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	October 3, 2022 11:40 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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