I was thinking about this a few days ago, as a male survivor I have now realized how "mens rights" and "fathers rights" groups are putting young boys in danger from their perpetrators. A 2011 study has actually found that when women make allegations (which are overwhelmingly true) they often face a up hill battle in the court system. Essentially are exposing more and more young men to violence from other men. They are making it easier. Most people believe that their is a high rate of false allegations. In fact they are extremly rare. Rates of false allegations of child sexual abuse are around 6% according to Violence free colorado. I found a case study where the mother discovered the father was sexually abusing her son. The father claimed parental alienation and the child was disbelieved (link is in the sources). Its a heartbreaking but common reality of mothers who are trying to protect their sons from abuse. Most abusers are male according to the NCJRS studies. Mens rights groups have tried to dispute this but the vast majority of abusers are actually men.

But what happens when law enforcement gets involved. Isn't the system always biased against men when they face allegations of abuse? Wrong, In fact most abusers never spend a day in jail. Red pill men however keep promoting the lie that the system is biased. The most common punishment is probation. If the mens rights groups cared so much about male victims then they would change how we treat domestic violence when young men are exposed to it. But they mainly because they don't really care about male victims when the perpetrator is another male, which it commonly is.

Finally, I would also like to point out that it was the feminists' movement that sought to recognize males as being victims of sexual violence. Its been my experience that feminist's were more compassionate, more open, and less judgmental of male victims regardless of the sex of the perpatrator. However the mens rights activists were only compassionate when the perpetrator was a female. When the perpetrator was a male it was a different story. I have often noticed that when men open up about sexual violence from other men they are often mocked and ridiculed by other men and not from women. When terry crews came out about his sexual assault his comment section on Facebook was filled with comments that victim blamed him, and were doubtful of his story mainly by men.

In general the MRA's have done male victims like myself a lot of damage. The protect a system that re victimizes victims of domestic and sexual violence. Essentially they are fighting to uphold a system that they claim to be fighting against.

(For red pill trolls only)

  1. If you are going to try to refute what I have said. Please cite your sources.
  2. Reddit is not a legitimate source
  3. 4chan is not a legitimate source
  4. MGTOW, Red pill, and MRA forums are not a legitimate source.
  5. If you can't find any kind of academic literature that supports your argument GTFO.
  6. If you don't have any experience being a victim of domestic or sexual abuse GTFO.
  7. Please read my full post and read the sources before you say anything stupid.

Sources: https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/238891.pdf

https://www.violencefreecolorado.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/CCADV-CCASA-Fact-Sheet-on-Myth-of-False-Allegations_updated-2.21.14.pdf

https://wamu.org/story/19/08/19/fathers-are-favored-in-child-custody-battles-even-when-abuse-is-alleged/

https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/225722.pdf

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-web-violence/201410/guess-how-many-domestic-violence-offenders-go-jail

https://des.az.gov/featured-story/facts-behind-domestic-violence-arizona

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1m7auvUNaLY