I think I know why I, and a lot of incels, want to be with a virgin. It's not necessarily that we are going to negitively compare ourselves with her past partners, it is more so to fill the void of missing out on "young love."
Young love is often associated with that innocent teenage romance where you both lost your virginity to each other, you had no adult responsibilities, and you were exploring sex together. They kind of experiences you hear in songs and see in movies, like you sneak out of your parents house and meet up with your girlfriend and kiss & cuddle in the car. These are all new and exciting experiences to you and they help you grow as a person and prepare you for future relationships.
A lot of incels were socially inept losers durring their youth, and never experienced these milestones, making them bitter and depressed about missing out. They feel like if they meet a virgin girl, they will get to experience that "innocent, young love" instead of just meeting a girl who already has experience and knows what she wants. I fell like nothing could replace the butterflies of first experiencing love together, and If I'm a virgin and she isn't, it wouldn't be the same. I just hope as a 21 year old virgin that the chance to experience these things is still obtainable.
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