I’ve tried that and I still get rejected. I’m just being honest. You’re supposed to have confidence out of “thin air” when it comes to dating but it’s “normal” to not be confident when it’s other hobbies. I’m over it. I wish I was good looking. NO, personality does not compensate over looks. You may have a preference that may not be “society standards of beauty” but it’s not more important than looks. I don’t want people to say it’s my attitude or im entitled when im not. You’re gaslighting cause you don’t want to admit the truth.