Hello guys, I'm 21 and as many of you I became trapped into the redpill stuff in a dark moment of my life, I was transitioning from high school to college with some familiar issues and a break up from a toxic relationship. Not a very dark period but it was enough confusing for me to start wondering how to solve problems with...guess....redpill principles.

I started falling for the redpill dating rules mainly, following some big youtubers, because I wanted so badly to heal from the past relationship and get a new intimate connection with a girl, needless to say it never truly worked. Long story short I never truly 100% believed that stuff, I was trying to get rid of my "blue pill nature" but at some point I realized it was all bs, mainly because of those frequent "women are all the same" advices so here I am ,lurking here to clean my mind from the previuos dirty stuff. My biggest worry is How can I start dating free from all those principles? Do you guys have any advice to get back on track with women leaving behind those typical abusive behaviours?

Thank you if you read this and you would help a fella