The red pill is very intellectually lazy when they put almost all the blame on women. They fail to acknowledge that men of the past allowed for changes in law and culture.

Our current dating/mating strategy is based on chance and not a calculation from community/family suggestions. Since lust/love blinds you to seemingly obvious partner faults, you’ll only discover them 2 years later. Thus, putting either women or men as the sole gatekeeper of sex is a fault in itself.

In the East, there is a saying that you “marry the family”. When your immediate family structure is in shambles, your odds of future family destabilisation is higher. Coupled with no fault divorce and a culture of high disposability when things go wrong- we value the feelings of our own wrong doings over the feelings of children who never had the choice of being born.

The young women (and men) of today never asked for feminism. Women were never informed nor educated about their agency in being the gate keepers of sex. Until we get to the route cause, single motherhood bashing only normalises abortions (which goes hand in hand with pick up culture and easy casual sex). Killing family is worse than destabilising the family.

The issue with single mothers is when they fail to acknowledge that they had any wrong doing on their part. If they wholeheartedly accept their wrong doings, I honestly think their role is much more commendable than someone who aborts. They are confronting a reality, even if that makes them less desirable to other potential male partners.

The red pill is a gateway drug to harsh truths. However, you are deluded to think it has all the answers. It is a money making scheme to get you dependant on a philosophy and isolated from your surroundings. Don’t be a mindless drone, and please think beyond that!

Now what are YOUR ex-redpill thoughts on single motherhood? Where do you think I’m wrong with this?