I feel like a lot of people in the RP sphere choose to view the issues they have with women from some kind of moral standpoint, and frankly, FDS women do this as well, and both sides can get very extreme. I feel like choosing to hold onto some kind of moral high ground when it comes to your own personal interests makes you unable to see things from your partners' side which automatically makes the relationship dysfunctional because you assume your perspective is the objective "truth".

It's normal for men and women to want to protect their interests when entering a relationship, and this is healthy. We do have biological differences and they do influence the relationship dynamic. Sometimes people will genuinely break the code by cheating, abusing their partner which is obvious shitty behavior. But sometimes people will also leave because they changed their life path, goals, external circumstances, etc.

RP men hate women who leave or divorce men because they feel like all women subconsciously will want to upgrade their men and use divorce as a weapon against them at some point because they're evil.

FDS women hate men who won't treat them like princesses in the early stages of the relationship, or waste their time sleeping with them but change their minds by opting out of the Long term relationship/marriage cause men are assholes ( edit: I am not referring to pumping and dumping here, just dudes who happen to break the relationship )

Nobody owes anybody a relationship, or marriage, or sex and people can always leave no matter how justified or not you think them leaving is. At least in today's dating system. If you are in this game for some kind of goal, aiming to find the perfect partner who will never hurt you, instead of enjoying the process with your lover, you are playing with the wrong mindset. This is what robs these men and women from actually enjoying their relationship because they are always looking for what they can get and trying to gain control over their partner in some way. If you believe women are backstabbing liars it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Do people really want to go back to a time where divorce wasn't an option? Or when everybody had to wait to get sex after marriage? No? Then I don't think there should be such a huge outrage over one specific gender.

You can't claim the other side is evil just because things aren't always in service of your interests. Both men and women are just doing their best dating in the current system.