Now before you red pillers come on here, call me a blue pill simp, and down vote this post to the depths of hell read my story and what I have to say IN FULL. I was once a Red Pill man who thought I would be supported by other Red Pill men. Then once I started sharing my story on places like Tik Tok they turned on me and stabbed me in the back because I was victimized by another man (my father). As soon as I started posting videos about my experience I was bombarded with HUNDREDS of hate filled messages calling me a liar who wants attention, saying I must have enjoyed it even though I was 6 when he started molesting me, mocking me, and saying that "he should have gone for someone cuter". Then when I posted a video calling out the men who did this I was again flooded with hateful messages with threats to doxx me. They then started making baseless about my account resulting in my account being suspended for 7 days which made it impossible for me to comment, like, or post videos. I was almost never attacked by feminists.

Then I began to notice a pattern, Red Pill men only care about male victims when they are able to use them to attack feminists. Every time I go on red pill sites they only talk about female on male violence and almost never talk about male on male sexual violence which is the vast majority of cases. And they only talk about male victimization to attack feminism. Then when a man accuses another man of sexual violence they turn on him. Then they start bitching about how false accusations against men are an epidemic. Don't believe me go on any video about male victimization that is not being used to silence women or attack feminism there are almost no Red Pill men who turn up to support the male survivor. And the men who do turn up are usually attacking or mocking the survivor. But when the video is being used to attack feminism suddenly they turn up.

This is not just my experience, this is the experience of most male survivors I know who are not being used as tokens to attack feminism. The vast majority of men who have been victimized by other men don't talk about their experiences for this reason. This is because men are far more hostile to male survivors than women are, don't believe me read this than: Men are much more hostile to male victims than women are, don't believe read this http://www.survivorsmanchester.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/Davies-M-Rogers-P-2006.pdf. The bottom line is that the reason most survivors, both men and women, don't speak up is because of other men, in my experience.

Now here is how you can actually support male survivors:

  1. Start by believing ALL survivors, not just male survivors.
  2. Stop bitching about false accusations, they are incredibly rare: https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/Publications_NSVRC_Overview_False-Reporting.pdf When you starting complaining about false accusations it silences survivors. If you are falsely accused their is a tiny chance you will go to prison especially if you rape another male. Plus survivors are rarely believed and only 25 of every 1000 people accused of rape will EVER go to prison: https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system.
  3. Stop saying being falsely accused is worse than being raped, it is not, PERIOD. Nothing is worse than having your body be invaded against your will by another person or being molested, END OF DISCUSSION. Being raped and molested pretty much ruins you for life. Then when you do come forward you are more likely to be disbelieved and their is minuscule chance that your perpetrator will be incarcerated. Yes false accusations are bad but stop equating the two.
  4. Don't use the experiences of male survivors as a weapon against feminism. My experiences of sexual violence is not for you to use as a weapon when you see fit.
  5. Stop whining about how men don't report as much and then turn around and mock us when we have been victimized by other men.