Examining my relations with women (both romantic, sexual and platonic), I noticed how often they more intense than relations with men. I noticed how I and other men constantly sought approval, positive feedback and closeness with women. Our relations to them mattered way more than we admit.

I think it became very apparent to me when I realized I don't want to lose all the women that rejected. It's not a "Wait until they want to fuck" kind of thing. I just generally enjoyed their presence in my life.'

Redpill denies all that. Redpill is about conquering and 'subjugating' women. There's nothing there about achieving actual closeness, intimacy and trust with women. After all, one of the main premises is that men and women are some sort of enemies and only manipulation work.

Now, I'm not saying I'm a perfect example of how to relate to women. In fact, I'm a total fuck-up. I got raped by ex-girlfriend, got sexually used by another and only had rejections so far. I also had great friendships and shitty friendships. I'm in therapy mostly to examine this, but I wanted to share this tidbit of wisdom - men want closeness with women. But our culture denies that, and encourages us 'conquer' instead.