Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are sexually attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???

bluehorserunning · 2022-09-03T16:12:29+00:00

*professional trophy wives* want older men. That doesn't mean that they find them attractive.

2022-09-03T15:55:49+00:00

Those men are the ones saying it trying to get those ages to be "influenced" into what is "attractive". It's low key grooming. It can cause them to stop listening to themselves this way and is a way to recruit them into similar groups to Red Pill as well, like NXVIM and Scientology as well.

Red_Trapezoid · 2022-09-03T17:32:44+00:00

It's literally just an attempted form of mass gaslighting.

Rhubarb_Fair · 2022-09-03T21:08:42+00:00

(Woman here). I've aged out of that bracket now. But when I was in it, these men NEVER appealed. Not because of their looks (I tend to love a man for who he is, then come to love his physicality).

But because they very clearly and obviously are looking to use women as sex objects. A 50 year old literally has nothing in common at all with an 18 year old. He only has any interest in her at all because of her body, and her malleable personality (basically, she'll put up with shit from him that a woman his own age would call out in 2 seconds flat).

I'm older now, but intermediate between those two ages.

If I get approached by an older (than me) man who has a preference for 18-25 year old women (on one dating site I'm on I can tell if they are), is a straight "no" from me.

Because (1) If they really want to fuck 18 year old girls, I dont want to be a "consolation prize" because they couldn't actually "get" an 18 year old - that is NOT going to be a relationship that lasts, (2) I want a man who is interested in ME, and in women, as individuals. A man who wants a partner with shared life experiences. A man who wants, even if it is a male/female polarity relationship, a partner who is his equal. A man with some sort of depth and desire for life, beyond the most superficial.

Negative-Train-3303 · 2022-09-03T16:10:19+00:00

Yes...yes they are that delusional. Kevin Samuels unironically rated himself a 9/10.

JSBelle · 2022-09-03T17:17:09+00:00

As someone who liked older men, yes this is absolute delusion. That age difference is way too large, and most men do not take care of themselves well by that age. I would say men are very attractive in their 30s and 40s, provided they take care of themselves. Unfortunately, as I’ve gotten older, my range has contracted. I still don’t find most 60 year-olds attractive.

SoIlikeMangos · 2022-09-03T19:24:02+00:00

I'm sorry but have you ever heard an old guy early in the morning cleaning his throat? Yeah...

xvszero · 2022-09-03T21:10:30+00:00

Well, they're partly delusional, partly just opening lying to try to control women.

wonderberry77 · 2022-09-04T06:03:35+00:00

yes - they really are. gross. no young woman is attracted to these old fucks.

AssignmentWest7267 · 2022-09-03T21:44:52+00:00

They’re fucking delusional

Icy_Comparison4832 · 2022-09-04T03:54:53+00:00

They believe that men get more attractive as they get older, and use stupid quotes like "men age like wine, women age like milk".

2022-09-04T05:02:35+00:00

I just turned 22 last month. To honest the only way I will be with a man that old is because of his money. There is no benefit being with a man that old. I want to be with a man in my bracket. Maybe thirties but 40s, 50s….. no. My rule is if you can have a conversation with my parents about what happened back in the day then maybe you are too old.

Ilovetupacc · 2022-09-05T21:57:25+00:00

I think it says 36-38 is their prime. I like men in that age range but a 50-60 year old fuck no

2022-09-18T04:00:38+00:00

I wouldn't ever want an old man. I want someone I enjoy showering with and someone I can live a long life with. I remember once I was with some girlfriends at a Bar Luie (bar/restaurant) and this old man in his 50s probably all dushy and obviously showing off status tried to hit on me. I straight up told him I wanted to eat my dinner and hear the band in peace. He seemed shocked. that a group of beautiful young girls didn't want him and his friends to sit and chat with us. I dont know where rp gets the Idea but I feel bad for the losers who believe their ship will come in when they are old. not gonna happen except maybe a gold digger.

debatelord_1 · 2022-09-27T19:25:33+00:00

It's a form of hopium that older dating coaches/content creators sell to their young audiences. They want these young guys to believe that they will one day also have the chance to get with a young, attractive woman.

mnelson8042 · 2022-09-29T07:45:27+00:00

I think it is somewhat possible. I'm 41, and have people mistaken me more than once for looking 29 to 30 years years old. But the difference is ive no interest in any woman under maybe 27 to more likely 28. Any woman younger than that I would consider too emotionally immature for my tastes.

Redpill bros would openly hate me if they knew the amount of interest I've received from girls in early 20s (I live in a primarily college town) but at the same time, I've shown no interest in return. I'm not delusional, I'm sure they assume I'm late 20s based off appearance. The thought of going on a date with a girl that's 21 years old sounds like suffering to me.

But I think being in my early 40s with no kids or marriages and not looking it, gives me an advantage somewhat with younger women. My dating range is usually 27 to 35. Anything past that age range, most of the women are either divorcee's or single moms. Considering I don't share their kind of baggage makes me not interested in them at all.

thetruthishere_ · 2022-09-03T16:13:49+00:00

Yes they are.

Sugar baby sites would not exist if young women wanted them.

Icy_Professional3138 · 2022-09-28T18:08:10+00:00

That isnt probably true but on reddit you wont really find a gf

McFalco · 2022-10-01T14:28:43+00:00

I think it depends on what you want or what you're looking for in a partner. As a man, I've been attracted to older women for their maturity, wisdom, and experience. However, I can also understand men who are more attracted to younger women. Some guys really like showing their SO new things because they enjoy the sight of their eyes lighting up with excitement when they do various activities or go to certain places/events for the first time. It's a direct indicator that they're adding to their life in some way(in this case, first experiences and new memories). It coincides with most men's desire to feel needed, wanted, and appreciated.

A woman who is older tends to have experienced more of life and isn't so easily impressed by their crypto collections, their beat up and tuned up honda civic that they take to the track every other week, or even some fancier things like a destination vacation.

I think it's all just preference.

Accomplished_Bus1375 · 2022-09-03T20:54:44+00:00

Its not that it can't happen. I m not defending the red pill. Believe me I'm not. But stranger things than an age gap can and do happen.

Pomeranian111 · 2022-09-03T17:50:33+00:00

My mom married my dad, age gap was 20 years to 32, that's a sizeable difference.

Redpill is correct that women do find older men "Experienced", more than men find older women attractive.

50's and 60's is laughable though, do they even say this, or are just making this post for upvotes?

Naus1987 · 2022-09-03T16:44:43+00:00

I think you may have to examine how you observe material.

A lot of red pill people claim women are attracted to men with resources who happen to be old.

I’ve never seen a single red pill person say young women are sexually and physically attracted to a 50+ man.

I agree that red pill pushes a lot of toxic bullshit, but I don’t think it’s fair to just make up your own bullshit to counter it lol. It discredits your own opinion (even if it’s right).

2022-09-03T18:37:41+00:00

I rarely agree with redpillers but some late 40s and 50-year olds are absolute heart snatchers.

Nightchanger · 2022-09-03T17:30:19+00:00

When sex drive is low other aspects have more importance. Is usually the root of the argument. Rollo specifically uses testosterone for that matter.

It's the same mentality for cougars, who because they're more mature and experienced would see young men attracted to them

jrr6415sun · 2022-09-03T16:38:51+00:00

I’ve never heard 50/60s. I’ve heard late 40s though, they are not wrinkly.

Fawk821 · 2022-09-03T18:08:17+00:00

Na dude, it’s true. It’s called the George Clooney effect. Older, subconsciously means more status, money, and power.

jcampos70507 · 2022-09-29T14:38:04+00:00

You misunderstood, they are attracted to the status, money, or power; or all of the above. They are waiting for the guy to die so that they can inherit everything.

tms79 · 2022-09-29T21:16:06+00:00

Can you actually back that post up with sources?

Deep_Principle_4446 · 2023-06-17T15:38:11+00:00

It’s funny to read this when my 29 year old wife cheated on me with a 60 year old man

My first serious gf just got married last year, she was 30 and her husband is 66

Another good friend of mine who I’ve always been attracted to just started dating a 56 year old and she’s 28

TheRealMe54321 · 2024-01-18T02:53:19+00:00

lol nobody is claiming this. The red pill claim is that those men are able to have sex with young women if they have wealth, status etc., NOT that the young women are physically attracted to them. The claim is that those men can pay for the sex that they want, either with soft prostitution or high-dollar escorts.

Title	Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are sexually attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???
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Date	September 3, 2022 3:27 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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