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“She’s not wife material”

August 12, 2021

Talking about what qualifies as “wife material” or “long term girlfriend material” is something that has always confused me about the red pill community. Their main focus is on spinning plates, not being in long-term relationships that lead to marriages, so why do they like to single out women who aren’t wifeable in their eyes? If you’re using them just to fuck, what’s the point of ostracizing women for their physical appearance, body count, insecurities, or pasts? I just don’t get it. They’re constantly poking at how many issues they have with women, but what’s the point of that if it’s about flirtation and sex at the end of the day? The main basis of TRP is to “focus on yourself so that the women naturally come to you so you can have a bunch of relationships, therefore increasing your ‘value’ as a man as your n count goes up,” but this also includes being very critical of female behavior (ex. “There’s no good girls, just bad ones that haven’t been caught”) to unhealthy amounts. If you plan on having none of these girls as your wife, I don’t see why the emphasis on certain things is so important. So they think that a switch in your brain is supposed to flip on when you’re approaching 30 and you’ll magically settle down with the “right” woman?

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Title “She’s not wife material”
Author FlakyImpact5838
Upvotes 23
Comments 5
Date August 12, 2021 1:59 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/ExRedPill
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/shes-not-wife-material.958727
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/p30dzj/shes_not_wife_material/
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[–]RadioSphinx 28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Truth is, they want to be with women. It's why they're so critical of everything women do. They want a gf, they want a wife, they want kids. They're average people, after all. What makes them rp is that they want women to act in a way that most benefits them at all times. They get bitter that it doesn't happen, and so they look for any excuse to blame women.

Too scared to enter a relationship? Women's fault.

Unattractive body and gross personality? Women's fault

Want sex but can't get it? Women are ruining society

Want sex but do get it? Women are ruining society

It doesn't matter what a woman does to the rp. The fact that she is female is reason enough to find her guilty.

[–]xvszero 17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A lot of them are conservatives who claim they miss the olden days, but also claim those times are gone. They blame their own fuck and dump behavior on modern women. Basically, their position boils down to "I'd totally get married if there were women worth marrying, but there aren't, so it's their own fault I'm using them."

It's sheer nonsense, but there it is.

[–]FlakyImpact5838[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This couldn’t have been explained better.

[–]BiWomanHealing 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok hear me out. “Spinning plates” is a big cope for secretly wanting committed, sexually active monogamy, but simultaneously being too afraid of women/hateful towards women/dysfunctional to actually attract or retain connections with quality women. Red pill is fundamentally unhealthy, it’s attachment disordered and low self esteem men trying to manipulate women to feel a taste of power and control since otherwise, they feel powerless and out of control in their dating lives. Ironically like you said, engaging in this manipulative hook up behavior is self sabotaging.

[–]Comfortable_Intern57 21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they want women to treat them like a husband without any of the commitment. They want a woman to cater to them, be faithful to them, cook for them, give them sex whenever they want and always be ready for them, but they don't want to bring the same to them. I dealt with that for 2 years in my last relationship until I got fed up with that shit and broke things off. Then he was all surprised Pikachu face 🙄🙄🙄

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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