Hey guys I'm a 22 year old guy about to finish college and kind of recently accepted that most guys don't really get to choose when it comes to dating. This is just what I believe, used to be pissed about it but ehh.

To be honest I want to date around right now but it's super difficult to find that mutual attraction.

The thing is, I see posts from other guys on here and there'll be comments about about how they'll meet x person in the future. Or some comment from someone who met their wife at 27, but I don't think meeting one partner without prior dating experience is healthy. And to be painfully honest, I can't imagine being in that situation without harboring some sort of resentment for my partner.

I don't want to get into a relationship out of fear for being alone for the rest of my life, I'd rather be alone.

Just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm concerned that if I don't get my experience in while I'm young things are gonna be rough later.