When I entered college, I befriended some guy who from day one pulled on me this pathetic dark triad shit. I never understood what he said at that time and dismissed it, rationalizing it as a negative attitude and being sarcastic. He searched these offensive memes on fb with his asshole friends and they would use coded language like thot, abundance, ubermensh. In retrospect, they should have been red flags to me. Now I was oblivious at that time (unaware of something known as the red brainwashing) , and thought of it as innocent dudes joking around. (I thought I was being sensitive)

However, with each day this dude and his friends would look at me strangely in our classes, would say negs all the time to me, and criticize me on my appearance. I mean I wish I was joking but he was that immature and toxic. He would post lowkey offensive memes about my gender, religion, and nationality, and even made fun of me being on the spectrum. He reframed the situation to make me a serious joyless person who can't understand humor..

He would always ignore answering and he misinterpret my words as if I was a crazy stupid person. It's as if he was begging to be criticized by some girl, in order to pull her in the bait and defeat her with experience. I dismissed it as harmless joking, but then he started posting mean things about me in a passive aggressive way on a group chat, and then I blocked him. After that hell was set loose. The bullying increased on the group chat.

Suddenly he let loose everything I told him about myself and made it into memes to make fun of me. About things I said, how I acted, how I looked like, etc. He made memes about me that were in some way anti-women. Like how all women leave for a better option, leaving there beta husbands and accusing them of being toxic and abusive. Now he kind of rationalized himself as the innocent beta being left by a toxic woman "me" pretending that he was abusing her. He was the one who bullied me first. I treated him with nothing but kindness and acceptance, but all what I got was passive agressive behavior from him. Plus, we were just friends and I don't understand his deep hatred for women. I will admit, I was at that time, and still now, a naive young girl. I was innocent in the sense that I always saw the best in others and tried to forgive not-so-flattering behavior and rude comments. I was also socially clueless and cannot always interpret malicious intents due to my overly protective parents and sheltered life.

I know there is this stereotype that redpill men or mgtows are losers or loners, but this guy isn't like that. He's extremely funny, charismatic, and smart. (However, he is ugly looking-maybe this prevented him from being Chad that's why he's bitter?) This misogynistic agenda is spreading and making men sociopaths. He dileberately treated me in this passive aggressive way and plotted for my eventual outburst after his misogynistic remarks. He waited for my outburst so he could entertain his friends with my reactions. He would throw offensive buzzwords and waited for the fish to react in order to label them as irrational and stupid. He was supported by many others and many girls ignored or joined his joking. From the start, he targeted me and intended on making me a laughing stock.

I was a geniunely confused person, I never witnessed him bullying others so I never had convincing rapport. Anyway I thank god it was bullying but nothing more. Like physical abuse or rape. I actually agree with bettering yourself part, but not making fun of women part. It's dehumanization. And he just doesn't care about any opinion from fuckholes "women". This guy turned out to be into the redpill shit. I discovered too late after I was stalked, spied on, bullied, and spread rumors about for months. This bullying happened in college and it left me scarred. I closed all social media accounts because I'm legit scared of what he could do with my pics. I even had multiple strange numbers message me with "hey" after I ghosted him.(I give my number to ONLY a select few and DO NOT post it on social media.)

He doesn't even attend classes if it's hosted by a female lecturer. He skips them. The few times (1-2 times each semester) he attends he sits infront of class and just excessively yawns and acts disinterested. He only regularly attends male hosted classes.( Our class is small that's why it's easy to notice.)

I felt stalked and scared. Other classmates and some girls included sided with him because he was more charismatic. He made me as this mean bitch who blocked people for no reason. However, one girl told me that he had a strange stare and look. These dudes who believe in ghosting women and not caring about their actions, were obssessed with spreading memes about me. It's pathetic and I never reacted but it continued nevertheless. He knew that I stopped talking to him because he was mean in his misogynistic way, and he knew that I won't have a relationship with him because I labelled him as a friend from the start (I'm asexual anyway and never been in a relationship-nor do I desire one) , so he used me as a punching bag to satisfy his sadistic ego.

He enjoyed gaining validation from other students when they mob bullied me with their words. He once told me that "I criticize people in order to make them feel bad" after I told him that his remarks could be interpreted to correct me and me becoming better. Even I, rationalized his behavior in a positive way even after telling me this sociopathic shit.

Thank god I went no contact. I felt for months broken and really as if I was inferior because of the philosophy of redpill. I cried really hard after I read their material. And then I realized they made fun of women's feelings and that they don't care about them. I realized they are a bunch of sociopaths. I'm legit scared of these men and I'm scared to meet someone like that. After I lurked for months on these misogynistic subs, a growing hatred for these men emerged. My biggest realization I had recently is that every many who gets on hurting women and thinks that the only way to advance in life is to dehumanize them is extremely pathetic. I realized that I would never ever want to be in their place and have these urges. I only envy their opportunities, freedom, strength, and boldness which I think is very beautiful.

Re-gaining your right and re-asserting your identity as a man must not involve dehumanizing women in the process. It must not involve bullying women who have not hurted you. Treating strangers badly for your past scars. Re-asserting your male identity is something extremely beautiful. Assertion is not about being narcissitic, inconsiderate, and treating a whole sex as inferior.

Anyway, I did the right thing by blocking and going no contact with this kind of person. I'm kinda proud of myself because it took me only like 3-4 months to block him. (And this is the first time I met a trper like him in real life. I also thought that all trpers are like him at first. But most of them are socially awkward men who feel betrayed and lost in society and geniunely need to improve and better themselves. Trp gives them valuable and important advice which I have benefited from personally. But it's the misogynistic and problematic ideas sprinkled with every good message which dominates their psyche. )

I also acknowledge that some women even have sex, marry, have children, and spend many wasted years with these kinds of people. At 21, to have this awareness is a gift you guys. May awareness, peace, acceptence, and kindness flourish in this community.

I am disgusted by them very much. And everything they're saying about us is wrong and dehumanizing. But I can't speak and won't speak to them never online or in real life. They are bullies and I don't even want to look at them. They make my blood boil. I cry everytime for every young woman who is manipulated by one of these people. I wish they were on the internet only, but these guys are seeping into our real lives and targeting young women for their entertainment.

Just wanted to share my story here and read several perspectives from the other side. If some of you have done something similar--like taking advantage of another's ignorance to destroy them- What made you believe you are justified in treating innocent people like that? On the opposite side--Have some of you ever been a victim of the manipulation of a redpilled guy?