~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
NonNeediness
[–]dykasauruswrecks33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, points for figuring out the projection aspect of it. But then deduct those and more for simply switching to another projection.
One step forward, roughly ten back.
[–]TheMadWoodcutter20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In other words "any woman who would fuck me must be a degenerate".
[–]NonNeediness[S] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's an image post btw, might look like I typed that on mobile.
[–]BackBae2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What type of psychopath browses in day mode on mobile
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He’s getting what he wants and he’s still pissed off 😂
[–]cagedtiger999 1 points 5 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
The biggest difference between people is cross personality rather than cross gender. You seem to be acting promiscuous right now and are finding enough promiscuous women to fulfill this.
But your heart is at conflict because you aren't a promiscuous person, however you have been taught to be those things by redpill and pick up culture, and taught how to be successful.
This is going to be hard for you (and all monogamous personality traits). The only thing I can say to help you is that AWALT is a massive fallacy and to not make sexual encounters the validation of your existence.
Just so you know you are on track with the whole PUA experience.
[–]NonNeediness[S] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I didn't write this, if that's what you're assuming. It's a screenshot of part of a post from the red pill subreddit. The point is that the guy who wrote it is still projecting his weakness and insecurity onto women and isn't as self-aware as he thinks.
[–]cagedtiger9995 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OH OK, He is further along than a lot of people. He has undone societies conditioning that "little girls are all sugar and spice and all things nice". He needs to undo TRP conditioning too now.
It's a lot harder process when you go from zero to hero in the eyes of women almost overnight with a little help from PUA and TRP. I do sympathise.
[–]adool7771 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I never suffered from this until I fell in love with a promiscuous woman. I'm more than happy to be with just her, but she has fucked around so much I need to do it too.
[–]cagedtiger999 1 points 5 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I disagree, you are changing who you are to accommodate or even compete with her.
Either be satisfied with her sleeping around or not, but deciding to become someone you aren't will be ultimately destructive.
You have a right to have a monogamous relationship if you want it. If you ask for it and she won't give it to, she has no right being with you. Let her have someone more sexually fluid.
[–]adool7771 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I meant she has way more sexual experience than me. Breaking up with her would be destroying something beautiful. Staying means I will always have the "I missed out" feeling.
[–]ArkitoA10 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, you may have "missed out" on a bunch of sexual encounters, but you'll have gained a decent (hopefully) relationship. Would those encounters really made you more happy than being with her?
[–]Lilly0773 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes because if you're not a perfect angel, you surely can't be human (with flaws being a part of that), you must be a demon instead.
TRP men deserve evil women, and I surely hope that 1) there are as many evil women as there are red pill guys, and 2) they all find each other and end up with each other.
Furthermore if we could send them all to live in isolation on a desert island and not deal with their shit, that would be nice.
[–]abicus43431 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont worry, these guys always end up with borderlines/narcissists. They get what they deserve.
[–]NeJin7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The sad thing? That complaint about women is pretty similar to what some women who got burned say about men.
So it appears that all humans are bastards, and many just don't see it for one half because they don't want to get laid by it.
[–]Jalakee2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In research there's a thing called "Selection Bias", where people with a certain predisposition or condition are over-represented in the data. It's no different when you are living a players life. When you are filtering and selecting for women who will sleep with you expediently, it's easy to view them all as depraved. The irony.
[–]The_one_who_learns2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess the problem is with expectation.
It is said that men value abract things like honour and loyalty. Which is why most of us unequivocally hold the man responsible for the end of a relationship when he cheats.
But society makes us believe that women are the more loyal, more honourable among the 2 sexes and when that illusion cones crashing down, it's difficult to not look at them with disgust.
The way they have a back up plan in their heads,
They way they sometimes conciously sometimes subconsciously maintain orbitors.
The way they cheat on a living boyfriend and rationalise to themselves why it was the right choice.
It's fucking crazy.
I guess the biggest problem of it is that we realize the standards we hold men to don't apply to women.
The imbalance of the sexes when it comes to rights and economic power are rectified by the efforts of both men and women.
Men are asked to - check their privilege and let women assume the greater role, to take away barriers of discrimination and to reduce the advantages that we hold in the world .
And most reasonable men do it. Because it is fair.
But women refuse to acknowledge the advantages they hold, and to take action to make it more fair.
They will purse their dual strategy and shame the sexless nerds they marry for being averse to their sexual history.
The ones who have well paying jobs in general will not date below their standards. They continue to , as a group get hitched to people at their level and above.
In other words, women are having their cake and eating it too.
And all of this leads to a disillusionment.
They are really not worth the effort we are expected to put in to associate with them.
In my case I had to accept that I am hardly the shinning beacon of honour that I used to be. And that in their possition I would have done the same thing.
They are not monsters . They are just selfish as a group.
[–]Yesm3can2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly you only needs the first sentence.
Expectation. That's it.
Most of human were raised by parents who would tell them that they will find someone someday. Not accounting the fact that some numbers of people did die of old age, never been kissed, never been involved in romantical relationship.
The spinsters and the male version of spinsters. They've existed back then, today and in the future. Across different countries, cultures, ethnicities.
Most parents are just too afraid to tell their kids that it is possible for them, to never find someone special till they grow old and die.
[–]whengoodladgonebad0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everything is temporarily fun and exciting, but there will be times you want a peace of mind and be content in your daily life unless you're a clinically psychopath without knowing it. You will always want new things. And you will never be satisfied. That's a human nature. We are often fighting with our own internal conflicts, but we don't know whys and hows. We just do what we think we should that is rewarding like people who are drug addicts.
© TheRedArchive 2024. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]dykasauruswrecks33 points34 points35 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheMadWoodcutter20 points21 points22 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NonNeediness[S] 7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]BackBae2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]cagedtiger999 1 points [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]NonNeediness[S] 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]cagedtiger9995 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]adool7771 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]cagedtiger999 1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]adool7771 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ArkitoA10 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Lilly0773 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]abicus43431 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NeJin7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Jalakee2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]The_one_who_learns2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Yesm3can2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]whengoodladgonebad0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link