Why do RP reduce men to being providers and then complain endlessly about it?

Dehydrated_Jellyfish · 2023-01-11T18:06:20+00:00

Cost of an at home therapist

alexbrove · 2023-01-11T19:42:56+00:00

Well said. There are literally no benefits to being with a man that thinks this way. No love, no emotional support, no kindness. All the red pilled man wants to do is 'protect' and 'provide'.

strugglingredditor3 · 2023-01-12T05:57:45+00:00

I don't know but another thing that RPers do is claim they're supposed to be the providers but whine about paying for dates.

2023-01-11T14:31:42+00:00

Your logic is a turn on, just saying. lol I'm a housewifey that does all this and still manages to get in about 50+ hours a month of community service. I feel so heard. Thank you.

spiraldinosaur · 2023-01-11T14:20:25+00:00

It's very easy to point out contradictions in RP content once you spend even a minute thinking about it. All of their expectations are unrealistic and dated.

I think a lot of RP content is heavily based on very dated ideas of roles of men and women, roles that in their minds cannot be changed and must be maintained, because they are inherent and evolutionary/biological. Women are biologically programmed into care roles, men are biologically programmed into provider roles. If we were still living in caves then it would be the same; men go hunting, women raise children. The fact that there's virtually no evidence that early man lived like this is irrelevant to these people. They just need a narrative to keep young men angry and sad so they can make more money off of them and/or validate and excuse their obnoxious behaviour.

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2023-01-11T17:59:54+00:00

<slow clap>. Very well said.

CuntessadiCunti · 2023-01-12T07:50:20+00:00

JFC. I just perused that sub you mentioned, which from your description initially sounded semi-promising. Spent a few minutes reading comments and honestly, from the way those dudes talk they are the stuff of nightmares. I'm all about self-improvement and accountability, but they seem to be exhibiting the very worst aspects of RP. These men literally perform "shit tests" on their wives and scorn spending time with them...ya know, the person they decided to marry and spend their rest of their lives with. If staying married is one of the goals I don't see this stuff leading to success. Some of them sound like really shitty dads too.

ETA- They also peacock and shit on each other in the comments. What a constructive, supportive community indeed.

Several-Passenger320 · 2023-01-12T10:49:01+00:00

Agree with some points but others not really;

Cost of intimate relationships? If its a 'cost' then you're better off without the relationship, for me intimacy is a joy in itself, I dont see it as a burden to carry

And the fact men cant be surprised if the woman leaves when the money runs dry just says they're both users and shitty people

But to the point of the thread, I think its because they expect an outcome out of providing instead of doing it because they're genuinely wanting to provide and to be a good person.

Stargazer1919 · 2023-01-13T01:42:16+00:00

Because they have a persecution complex.

RedMahler1219 · 2023-01-18T00:25:17+00:00

You start from the wrong premise. They think women are incapable of loving a man unless he provides. So, from their side, they understand women's nature and begrudgingly go with it. They complain about it sure, but still know that they have to do it in order to get sex, so they do it. That's what you're missing.

IE: They don't want to be providers, but they have to be, in order to get girls, cause girls are not able to love non-providers long term. In their view.

Honestly, If you ask most redpillers, they would be totally okay with a 50/50 relationship as long as they are promised dom/sub relations with the girl. Which won't happen lol.

Title	Why do RP reduce men to being providers and then complain endlessly about it?
Author	Negative-Train-3303
Upvotes	76
Comments	20
Date	January 11, 2023 1:21 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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