How do you handle it when the topic of sex comes up early in dating? Are there any scripts you follow? Is it a good idea to hint at timeframe? Why or why not? Do you always have to wait 90 days? Why is 90 days the minimum vs. 60 or 30? Do you have any experiences to share?

For reference I’m a divorcée in my early 40s. I have plenty of life and relationship experience and have gotten very comfortable applying FDS principles in vetting men for potential relationships. I credit the information in this sub with helping me obtain knowledge & perspective that has saved an incalculable amount of potential time wasted on men who are not worth my time. I’m curious about the 90 days for many reasons including that I don’t want to spend 3 months getting to know someone & investing time with them, only to find out we are sexually incompatible.

Thoughts/input appreciated!