After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.

_xyoungbellax_ · 2021-11-08T06:33:19+00:00

This is not only disgusting but downright, a criminal behaviour. Coercing and deceiving someone into sexual acts, is rape. Hope she gets the courage to get out and file a solid case against him. He deserves to rot in jail.

aluriaphin · 2021-11-08T05:14:08+00:00

This should really have a Trigger Warning for sexual assault. She should call the fucking police on him, this is literally criminal.

scorchedsouI · 2021-11-08T06:34:05+00:00

"because I have a very sensitive stomach" It's okay, you can say it's disgusting and that's he's a fucking abomination for even suggesting it, it's okay.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-11-08T05:53:23+00:00

Reading through the comments, she's 16 he's 23. All the people in the comments point it out and tell her to leave him, she sounds brainwashed.

deepdarkocean · 2021-11-08T13:17:11+00:00

Us women are RELIEVED and GRATEFUL our male partners dont hate or reject us after we refuse them sexually in some way

Something really really terrifying happens in male/female relationships, im starting to believe the captor theory more and more as days go by

bookworm1896 · 2021-11-08T08:00:33+00:00

Apart from the really disgusting breakfast he made, another thing caught my attention: she said that she was relieved he wanted to make her breakfast, because they argued before going to bed. She seems to be scared of him, just another sign for his abuse

All4Goldie · 2021-11-08T05:28:26+00:00

What the fuck??!! She needed to leave him waaaaay before this happened. 🤮

ciaramcw · 2021-11-08T14:37:23+00:00

She should make pancakes with her period juice in it ha

rwilkz · 2021-11-08T13:12:04+00:00

On the upside, TIFU is the home of all of Reddit’s amateur fetish writers, so I’m really hopeful this is just some scrotes imagination (one without access to women or their food) and not an actual first hand account.

WestAtmosphere · 2021-11-08T13:23:19+00:00

This is seriously psychotic pornsick behaviour, not to mention the age gap in which she is a MINOR. If someone is willing to blow past boundaries like this, they are a predator in some form or another. This guy apparently a predator through and through and needs to be locked up. Who knows what he'll pull next.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-11-08T07:49:26+00:00

This is sexual assault and she’s 16 dating a 23 year old?? Wtf is going on? I hate to say it but I bet she’s being neglected by her parents and her predator is preying on her since they might live in a state where the age of consent is 16.

Digital_Coyote · 2021-11-08T05:28:04+00:00

"People say that to me a lot when I bring up him pressuring me into doing stuff. I'm F16 and my boyfriend is M23 (it's legal in my state unfortunately) so most of the things he talks me into are things I have little to no knowledge on and most of the time, the people I tell, think I'm exaggerating stuff like this."

I......I fucking can't. Their parents are supposedly friends. What parents are letting some legal to drink creep adult date their barely able to legally drive child?

BlueJeanMistress · 2021-11-08T15:04:03+00:00

She posted an update and said she is leaving him and going to her aunt’s house. So on the off chance this is real at least it had a “happy” ending-if you can call it that…

christmasforoutlaws · 2021-11-08T12:34:35+00:00

Girl, don't just leave him. End him. Jfc.

Usual-Vegetable-3638 · 2021-11-08T08:37:00+00:00

Disgusting bastard predator! Never accept foods and drinks from these shitty scrotes. This is so disgusting and scary.

Ammerex · 2021-11-08T07:44:38+00:00

"That HAPPENED to have his cum on it."

Oh baby girl no.

You don't have to use passive wording to diminish his assault to protect him from blame. You're the victim. It didn't just 'happen' to be on the food.. He PUT his cum on your food. He TRICKED you into consuming something you clearly stated you didn't want to.

CheetahEnergy · 2021-11-08T06:41:44+00:00

What the f... just when I think I can no longer be surprised by men... they surprise me some more

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-11-08T12:51:18+00:00

I doubt this is real. It reads like some disgusting redditor’s fantasy. Cum and icing don’t even look alike. It’s prob some dude who’s into that weird bimbo fetish shit.

ironglaciers · 2021-11-08T11:20:29+00:00

TIFU is pretty well known to have made-up stories. This reads like one of them and it's disgusting. So while everyone here is rightfully upset, I don't think it's real. Still gross to read though.

CrazyPaine · 2021-11-08T07:25:32+00:00

Oh god. That's terrible. I hope for one she's ok and two she needs to leave because that's fucking horrifying and three ewwwww

kycake · 2021-11-08T08:29:35+00:00

this is assault. she better charge him with assault. breaking up with him shouldn’t be his only consequence. she should tell everyone, mutual friends, his coworkers, his parents. he will do it to another woman if there are no consequences. let’s hold men accountable for their actions. just leaving him isn’t enough, he needs to be punished for this.

pastelitosimpatico · 2021-11-08T12:34:08+00:00

The way this is narrated is so fucked up I wonder if it's a porn sick troll

Eli1984 · 2021-11-08T08:11:54+00:00

What the hell did I just read 😑 this poor girl needs serious help

salthoney · 2021-11-08T11:56:54+00:00

This reminds me of the man who secretly fed his wife snails, and the other who secretly tried to feed his gf peanuts knowing she is allergic. He didn‘t believe her and thought she was bEiNg DiFfiCuLt 🙄

Jandi18 · 2021-11-08T14:38:51+00:00

I would have lived a happy life if I didn’t read this 🤮. I was hoping it wasn’t what I was thinking when she mentioned breakfast! Gross! Some men are vile!

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-08T14:47:39+00:00

I’m SO glad the other comments are saying what I’m thinking. That this is assault. “Oh but it wasn’t sexual-“ (some scrote would say)NO. He’s obviously grooming her to accept his gross cum fixation, and the fact another comment stated she’s 16 and he’s 23????!!! I need to lie down…

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-11-08T16:24:38+00:00

The other day I saw this video on youtube basically about whether women's standards "are too high" (🙄) and one of the comments was this scrote making fun of these women saying something like, "don't worry. You could always go to petco to adopt those cats when you can't find a man!"

But it's like after reading posts like these, I feel like I would much rather sign up for that petco membership and take those cats rather than deal with guys like these for the rest of my life

sblwsk · 2021-11-08T09:30:31+00:00

Omg, I hope it's a troll.

AnniaT · 2021-11-08T08:44:27+00:00

Wtf is this??? Isn't this sexual assault and full on abusive?

Waste-Win · 2021-11-08T17:05:52+00:00

What the actual fuck? Enough internet for today.

fds_throwaway_4_u · 2021-11-08T08:46:11+00:00

I am pretty sure this counts as sexual assault…

Kazzosama · 2021-11-08T09:40:54+00:00

I was the 16 year old dating a 23 year old

"I wish that I knew what I know now, when I was younger."

Forcing you to eat his cum is a sign that he looks at you as a sex toy not a human. Gtfo. Even my pedo ex didn't do that.

nodisappointMENtpls · 2021-11-08T10:47:01+00:00

I hate and completely despise those who think large age gaps ESPECIALLY minor and adult relationships are okay because it says so under the eyes of the law. Lawful doesn't always = ethical. We need to start changing these pedophilic laws to protect girls and young people. It's hard recognising abuse when it isn't physical, even harder at a young age where they have less experience to compare with and HELL their brains aren't even close to fully developing and have the abilities to see things many teenagers don't see due to them STILL being children and are still naive. Yes, even child geniuses can be groomed.

munissa · 2021-11-08T15:42:11+00:00

That is fucking disgusting. I saw the trigger warning but I’m still very very trigger. Fucking trash human.

PinkestMango · 2021-11-08T11:30:36+00:00

The choice will be real easy. GET OUT OF MY HOUSE, YOU RAPIST!

Datonecatladyukno · 2021-11-08T12:19:28+00:00

This is terrifying and makes me physically ill just to read

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-11-08T09:34:11+00:00

This is absolutely disgusting, this is sexual assault. Men are fucking horrible.

Oli_love90 · 2021-11-08T09:00:20+00:00

Honestly everything about swallowing cum is awful and I’m annoyed that it’s viewed as normal and every woman should enjoy it. It tastes terrible, the texture is awful - it’s an overall disgusting experience.

Odd_Construction6742 · 2021-11-08T11:16:13+00:00

This is why food delivery apps and male delivery drivers scare me. There needs to be a DoorDash food seal that if broken, let’s u know the driver tampered with it.

fireforestfairy · 2021-11-08T11:37:28+00:00

This was so gross.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-11-08T15:23:41+00:00

I don't know if this is a creative writing exercise or a girl genuinely brainwashed but she posted an update, with a link to the original thread.

digmeunder · 2021-11-08T15:58:47+00:00

WTF!! That is disturbing. How can she even think she's in the wrong?!

miiju86 · 2021-11-08T18:52:53+00:00

Such a sadistic POS.

They can't stand even the slightest "not functioning" of a woman, even if it's for a very "real" reason.

Run, sis!!

Such a guy will never be capable of loving any woman. The ingrained hate (and the coupling with lust/pleasure in their brains - just like pavlow's dogs,) goes to deep. Run.

ThrowRA_lantern · 2021-11-08T22:00:10+00:00

I wish people didn’t make reddit titles like this… The title merely mentions breakfast but there’s more important issues here??? Seriously gotta stop downplaying male depravity.

Better title: My Scrote bf put c*m on my breakfast to get back at me and because he’s deranged 🤡

ifhewantedtohewould · 2021-11-08T06:21:34+00:00

That’s sexual assault wtf. He is DISGUSTING. I can’t imagine the number of times she’s submitted to his ‘sexual needs’ because of threats etc. I hope she leaves.

YesMaaam20 · 2021-11-08T05:18:56+00:00

Notice how she worded it as her fuck up. She literally got assaulted and she still thinks it’s her fault 🤦‍♀️

Matraya2 · 2021-11-08T07:30:18+00:00

I am AGHAST. What an absolute monster that man is. Disgusting.

szarcat · 2021-11-08T09:50:06+00:00

Sounds like she’s insecure af and she’ll stay and end up having his kids if she don’t get her shit together. What a psycho he is.

stickysoups · 2021-11-08T06:40:24+00:00

This is fucking vile. The first sentence was enough for me but I’m seriously disgusted reading this post all the way through.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-11-08T22:39:41+00:00

Sorry but we would be physically fighting. This would enrage me.

Apprehensive_Let_993 · 2021-11-08T08:24:31+00:00

Disgusting, leave him, he is a monster, things will get worst the longer you are with him, get out while u can

shoesfromparis135 · 2021-11-08T10:46:46+00:00

That’s disgusting.

waddamelone · 2021-11-08T12:10:05+00:00

EX-FUCKING-CUSE ME?!

moon-drag0n · 2021-11-08T10:38:46+00:00

This can't be real, right? I refuse to believe that there is a man out there that is so horrible

xfelugirlx · 2021-11-08T10:52:52+00:00

Wtffffff, he literally took advantage of you.. and make you a pancake with cum??? He’s a fucking psycho

vforvendetta87 · 2021-11-08T15:43:01+00:00

What. The. Fuck.

AlegalHuman · 2021-11-08T18:45:36+00:00

thecrazywitch31 · 2021-11-08T19:23:04+00:00

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

WorkaholicParty · 2021-11-09T01:02:30+00:00

This makes me cry.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-11-09T01:53:52+00:00

🔫

WinterSolaces · 2021-11-09T04:23:21+00:00

Literally psychotic. I would of reported this to the cops. Even if nothing came from this specific interaction, this is a huge red flag for him to do more fucked up things in the future to her or his future girlfriends.

lawlessesq · 2021-11-09T17:24:35+00:00

My jaw literally dropped.

Title	After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.
Author	olivegreenph
Upvotes	1265
Comments	107
Date	November 8, 2021 5:11 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qp6n13/after_this_she_is_still_unsure_if_she_should_leave/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/after-this-she-is-still-unsure-if-she-should-leave.1085302 https://theredarchive.com/post/1085302