That’s it, that’s the post.

I’ve noticed throughout the English speaking world, we’ve intentionally softened our language, or chosen language to intentionally obfuscate the depravity or point of what we are discussing.

“Child porn” instead of “child sexual abuse material”

“BDSM” instead of spelling it out “Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism”

“Choking or breath play” instead of “strangulation”

The list goes on, but the main point is that language matters. Calling our dealbreakers something like a “red flag” implies you’d stick around after observing that behaviour from the scrote in question. You don’t stick around. They’re dealbreakers. It’s time to upgrade our discourse to reflect the no-nonsense approach FDS pushes us all to take in our personal life and relationships.

It’s not a “red flag” it’s a “dealbreaker” and the more women who see that finality reflected in their language, the easier it will be to walk away from some LVM who’s so far beneath them they’re not even playing in the same league