FDS gets banned for “extremism” and “hate speech” on other allegedly neutral subs because of how we suggest women deal with men...but is it extreme? Or is it just a completely rational response to the objective reality of the things women all have repeatedly encountered in real life?
Pretending men and women are equal in all manner of behavior is an insidious way to silence women.
The biggest problem with the faux veneer of “equality” on all the “neutral” subs is that we can never speak our truth, because the truth paints men in an ugly light in comparison.
FDS exists because not all people want to sit around waiting to be a victim under the veneer of “gender equality” nobody really believes is real.
Pretending you can treat men and women exactly the same is stupid and literally NOBODY ON EARTH does this, but when you draw attention to this clear objective reality, everyone suddenly gets offended.
Everybody online wants to virtue signal, but in real life it is a different story.
Okay, sure, all you “woke” bastions of gender equality, riddle me this:
if you’re walking alone at night are you equally afraid of being abducted by a woman as a man?
Are you just as comfortable leaving your kids with an unrelated middle aged male babysitter as you would be a middle aged female sitter?
When you hear about mass shootings are you EVER shocked it was a man?
All the “woke” people who judge this sub are full of shit.
EVERYBODY enacts these little judgments against men to protect themselves DAILY because WE ALL KNOW THEY’RE MORE DEPRAVED AND DANGEROUS but then when we say it out loud on FDS suddenly we’re the “femcels that hate men”?
Or maybe we’re just the only ones not in denial and not afraid to call men on their shit?
We’re not going to be nice and we’re not playing fair because the stakes are in no way equal and to the extent that anybody pretends otherwise is a testament to how much men have co-opted feminist language of equality to their own interest.
And if you write “NOT AAAALLL MEN” or “WHAT IF IT WERE BLAAAAACK PEOPLE” in the comments I’m gleefully banning the fuck out of you. Race is not real but sex IS real and just because it’s not ALL men doesn’t mean it’s not MOST men or if it’s not MOST men, it’s still overwhelmingly men in comparison to women. And you KNOW this.
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