I've been in a LTR and recently came to the realization that my partner is negative about alot of situations, and conflates past events with current events. I'm not really sure how to explain this, but there are alot of emotions, anger and frustration. I just want to be able to travel, work remotely, live a happy life you know. My partner can't seem to want to grow or transition into a decentralized lifestyle. Advice?