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[–]FuckenWinningFDS Newbie 121 points122 points123 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They always shamelessly push for more than they deserve.
[–]1Here4BachFDS STRATEGY COACH 68 points69 points70 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. They fucked up when they started throwing the “slut/whore” insults to women who clearly aren't sluts.
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH 47 points48 points49 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some guy I had a regrettable one night stand with slut shamed me over texts after he realized I didn’t want to be his girlfriend. The audacity. He can have a one night stand but I am the slut for doing the same. Typical.
[–]FrozenExpanseThrowaway Account 43 points44 points45 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To them ALL women are sluts smdh
[–]shinyjewelsFDS Apprentice 611 points612 points613 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
When men stopped having financial power over women, they tried to control us with slut shaming and social pressure. It's the same permutation of oppression recycled in different forms.
[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 90 points91 points92 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much this.
Women historically were pretty harsh judges of underperforming men because men determined everything about a woman’s life (and this is still the case in some countries today) - where she lived, who she talked to, how she dressed, how she was treated, whether she starved, whether her kids starved, whether she and her kids worked themselves to death in their youth. EVERYTHING. Men with no money and no prospects and no anything had prostitution and life as sailors or whatever they could find. They weren’t husband material.
Settling for a man you support financially has historically never been a common, intentional, voluntary behavior of women. Men acting like “independent women” today are harsh are being crybabies - they’d not have stood a chance historically. Today, they can get laid, married, have kids, and not be so destitute that they and their family line die off within a decade of disease and starvation.
[–]adalovelace1793---FDS Newbie 271 points272 points273 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"How dare you to ditch a ZVM! " "Well, his cock was short, and his wallet non existant, and he wanted to come to my place and get served all the time" the hell to that! All the wise woman will laugh, all the pickmes will stare in horror
[–]Bitter_Froyo_6742FDS Newbie 172 points173 points174 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Typically I'm extremely critical of unfettered capitalism, but seeing it blow up in America's face as it now starts to work against the established social hierarchy is already hilarious. The free market realized that black people and women are bigger markers than crotchety racists, and the GOP has been crying about it ever sense.
[–]WeremaidFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol so true— laissez faire is all good and well until minorities start waving their cash around, then suddenly small government doesn’t look that great
[–]1Here4BachFDS STRATEGY COACH 24 points25 points26 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It's funny because there are certain people (mostly men on reddit) who make fun of consumers but consumers literally control social politics in America. If POC and Women are the majority of consumers, then organizations are going to back political causes that their consumers back in order to keep them buying their products. When big organizations with power start backing political causes that leads social change.
The most recent example I can think of is BLM. Nike isn’t supporting BLM out of the kindness of their hearts. They’re supporting it because they’re following the money. They know the majority of their consumer demographic is young liberals and POC.
[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 479 points480 points481 points 2 years ago* (20 children) | Copy Link
Men have made empty promises for too long and we're onto their shit.
"Men respect women who..."
No they don't.
"Men will love a woman forever if she..."
"Give men sex and you'll get a relationship in return"
No you won't.
[–]skyfullofstars89FDS Newbie 103 points104 points105 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men either respect women, or they don't. That is the bottom line, and now we women have learned this we cannot unlearn it.
They are furious about it.
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[–]fdssavedmylifeFDS Newbie 133 points134 points135 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. I was a perfect little meek pickme sex doll extraordinaire, looking at him with stars in my eyes... and he physically abused me. Then the next guy pathologically lied to me. Then the next guy was obsessed with anime characters that look like children. Then the next guy, then the next guy... no matter how ugly, “nice,” or poor these men were, they were all manipulative or abusive or broken in some way.
[–]Platipus6FDS Apprentice 171 points172 points173 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same. In every relationship, I was what they claimed they luuuuuurved. Still treated me like shit 🤷♀️
[–]rotnomeo 60 points61 points62 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They claim they love those kinds of women cause they can cheat and lie and bring nothing to the table and still have a ‘main’ to come back to
[–]nothing998FDS Newbie 60 points61 points62 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ironically once men have their "ideal" they think they can pull the same again and again. Give a man what he wants and he tells himself he can get more.
[–]fckingmiraclesFDS Newbie 52 points53 points54 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry for being used while still so young. *hugs*
[–]missyou2017FDS Newbie 75 points76 points77 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah but you didn't know h-how to cook and clean the house, t-that's the reason why!! /s
[–]BusinessTwistofLimeFDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LVM/ZVM : "YoU sHoULD hAve ChoSEN bEttER!"
If you're too naive and trusting, it's your fault. If you protect yourself from being abused or manipulated by having standards and vet, then you're "too picky and doomed to die alone." I'm sorry you went through those things. Glad you found FDS, queen!
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH 20 points21 points22 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They live in fantasy land. They want a young, beautiful virgin and the few who actually get that take full advantage of her to be the dogs they are. I’ve seen it with my teenage daughters’ friends. The teenage boys, once they are sexually active, will cheat. Adult men, teen boys - they’ll all cheat given the chance, and these are scrotes way less attractive than their girlfriends. I was 15, pretty, fit, loyal, and my 18 yr old bf cheated on me because I wouldn’t have sex with him, because I was a child. When I finally did have sex with someone when I was 20, I never told the guy he was my first. I wasn’t going to give him that satisfaction. I did, however, go home and write in my journal how disappointing it was. I simply can’t imagine any young woman getting yoked into a lifetime relationship with a terrible lover. I’ve never in my lifetime met a woman who stayed with a scrote she got involved with at a young age. Looking back on my youth, I cringe at how I had several NVM boyfriends. I cannot even fathom being with any of them today. These delusional guys who shame us are the least likely to bring anything of value to the table to make a pretty young woman stay, yet they think they’re entitled to one. Good luck with that!
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do so many guys turn into absolute jackasses once they get a taste of sex?! Like rabid wolves some of them!
[–]_differentmentality_FDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You cannot take seriously any advice men give because its purpose is to shape you into the type of woman that benefits them.
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I want to fix you, I want to mold you.” Were the words that came out of my LVX’s mouth to me. I’m a 42 year old Mom of three, why the hell did I stay? Oh yeah, because he got me “when I was vulnerable” according to him.
I see now there’s a reason to stay single and to yourself inbetwixt toxic shit fuckery relationshits!
[–]WorkaholicPartyFDS Newbie 235 points236 points237 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Finally recognizing that men will always have the audacity to assume they are smarter than us, despite how obviously intelligent and accomplished we can be, was so freeing. There is no point in seeking their approval, on the contrary, that would be degrading.
They are free to underestimate us, while I'll find their ineptitude and incapacity of recognizing my humanity as amusing from my point of privilege.
Their opinions are worthless, and how can they not be? Women are required to work, study, maintain the house, become mothers, conform to social standards of femininity all in effortless fashion while men waste away their youth with porn and video games and they think their opinions and thoughts are of interest? Yeah, no.
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie 146 points147 points148 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I encourage every woman/femme I know to be incredibly selfish and ruthless with men. They will do it to you if given the chance. Fook em.
[–]purasangriaRuthless Strategist 209 points210 points211 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, because they treated us so WELL when we cared what they thought, right? /s
Men are just big mad because they now have less control since we DGAF what they think. Die mad, men. We now have resources, and the luxury of not giving a shit. So we don't give a shit.
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[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A million cheers to this!!! 💕🎉🌞🙏💃🙌🥂🍾🍷
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya goddamned RIGHT!!!
[–]Wiggy_BopFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you me? lol I can relate and agree with everything you said!
[–]LavenderMechanismFDS Newbie 228 points229 points230 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We’d care what men thought if their thoughts weren’t so depraved, if they thought of us as human beings, and if they cared what we thought.
All they think about is subjugating women through manipulation, sex, money and violence and dominating other men through money, manipulation, violence, and sex so it’s not like they’re telling us something new when they open their mouths. It’s just the same old crap over again: “we like you do to whatever we say and if you don’t you’re oppressing us as men.”
Oh and they think about rape, and spend a substantial portion of their lives watching filmed rape and some even commit rape themselves.
How can they honestly believe any woman would care about what men think of women when we know it’s negative and awful for no logical reasons except “US STRONG, HAVE MUSCLE.”
Finding a man who actually: cares about bettering the human condition for both sexes, treats women with as much respect as they treat men they admire (which means among other things that he doesn’t watch porn) and who has his life together both in terms of his career and his finances, and who would be a good father, and who takes care of himself is becoming more and more difficult.
It’s amazing to me that men think this is too much to ask when they want women to do all this and take care of them too.
[–]Fit_JuiceFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Little do they know guns triumph muscles, us being by default smaller makes us harder to hit. Muscles don't matter anymore.
[–]houstongradengineer 213 points214 points215 points 2 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
No, no. Let's talk about this. Men are grown people running countries and corporations. Men should ABSOLUTELY be expected to figure out the basic logic of why shaming women loses its effect when the tactic is literally used constantly. They know. They always know. But, if men admit they are wrong, people might turn a spotlight ONTO THEM. Gotta play offense.
[–]Bitter_Froyo_6742FDS Newbie 128 points129 points130 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Slut shaming only worked because women lacked the social power to fight back. If we gave men all the money and voting rights back, whether or not men approve of you would start mattering again.
Women stop caring what men think when they realize they are just fine without them.
[–]SallyTwoSocksFDS Newbie 78 points79 points80 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pretty much. If you can’t open your own bank account or own property without a husband, then the only tactic for survival is to trim yourself down to the perfect people pleaser for men’s standards and get yourself any husband that’ll take you. It wasn’t a worthwhile investment to choose a difficult woman, so the more quiet and well behaved, the easier it would be to get her to do whatever he wanted. Now that women can do pretty much anything imaginable by themselves, then we just don’t need to shrink ourselves down to fit that mold.
[–]Amphy64FDS Newbie 21 points22 points23 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it was doomed as soon as we had reliable birth control that was wholly in the women's control, and secularisation -which the US really needs- makes it impossible to enforce. 'Men won't like you' isn't much of a threat when the majority of them are perfectly happy with an arrangement where more women will sleep with them, without having to worry as much about unwanted pregnancies, or untreatable STDs either, I guess. Other 'men won't like you' threats are still highly effective, so I think this one doesn't work primarily because it's not even true. From a UK, thus thoroughly heathenised, perspective, it's a much more effective threat against virgins.
Historically, as well as owning property -they could, it's marriage that gets in the way, not that permits it-, women have done loads of things at least some men complained they didn't like (including sex before marriage, because neither young women nor men want to listen to the kill-joy dried-up old priest that much. Numbers of births that arrive 'too soon' after a marriage are interesting to look at, there), and been 'difficult' plenty. Sometimes with male encouragement, because while it was the uptight, less observant of human nature, dude who'd demanded limitless quiet and colourless obedience, other men did not expect that and would've found it as boring and annoying as it sounds.
[–]flowerpower102938FDS Newbie 110 points111 points112 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Grown men run countries but can't figure out how to fit a pie dish in a half full fridge? What happened to men are good at spacial reasoning?
[–]pretty_killFDS Apprentice 42 points43 points44 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're ViSuAl creatures lol
They're really just lazy.
[–]_queefer_sutherland_ 18 points19 points20 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do it yourself when you can lazily half-ass everything and hope someone else just takes care of it next time?
[–]betsybassetFDS Newbie 197 points198 points199 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
HVM is a fantasy that I'm starting to accept.
How could there be an HVM when the world is an hundred years old institution of misogyny build by, for and to serve men?
Block and delete is the only way at the the slightest sign of disrespect.
[–]adalovelace1793---FDS Newbie 88 points89 points90 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I cried all my Madame Butterfly tears. I will face the future knowing that I can make myself fully happy, that Im open to HVM if they appear but even if they do not, I will help my Sisters grow! Our Desired World is just there for us to get it! A kinder world! We never needed a single man to make it true! 🌸
[–]fdssavedmylifeFDS Newbie 88 points89 points90 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being a HVM take years of unwriting internalized misogyny and going against a society that rewards men for being selfish jerks. Most men just don’t have the motivation to try. They can succeed and live the life of their dreams, all while hating, objectifying, and abusing women. There’s really only intrinsic benefit to being a HVM. So yeah, they’re very very rare if they do exist. (Never met one, so I can’t personally claim they do)
[–]BashRunesFDS Apprentice 102 points103 points104 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good. If women having rights is such a bad thing, then we don't need you anyway lol
[–]schaden_fro 29 points30 points31 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Not to mention even if women do everything "right" by their standards so as not to get shamed, they still treat those women like garbage. Why even bother then?
[–]throwawayheyyy5FDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOOOL
[–]slightly__belowFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why am I a slut if I have sex, but a man is a player??? make it make sense
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Patriarchy.
[–]karabnpFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Made my day to read this.😌💖 Should’ve happened WAY sooner...
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