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Asking a man for full body pic…how?

July 8, 2021
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Doing this dating thing- yes apps are terrible but I’m using it to work out my red flag radar, test my boundaries, etc. it’s actually quite fun weeding through all the crap, digging things up they don’t think you’ll find. One guy is funny, I’d consider meeting him. But his pics are older, he sent me two standing pics but they are from about 5 years ago. I found his IG which is all older pics or recent head shots. There is one semi body pic but it’s a little tough to tell. I’m sure he gained a lot of weight - which isn’t the major issue, the hiding it is the major issue. I want to see if he’ll fess up, how do I ask for a full body picture, just come right out and ask?

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[–]SuitablePerformance3Ruthless Strategist[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link

OP,next time post questions like this to r /askFDS, thank you.

[–]ZeniiteFDS Newbie 30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, if you’re in a place where you’re looking for him to fess up, it doesn’t sound like he’s worth it. A HVM would likely have recent headshots and full body shots if he’s on OLD at all because he wouldn’t want to misrepresent himself or catfish someone.

[–]sassenachpantsFDS Newbie 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s too much effort to be putting into someone who is effectively deceiving you. I’m plus size, I put recent full body pics on my profile.

[–]Foomama48FDS Newbie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same here, I’m fluffy and my pic is right there, so stupid to lie about it. I got caught up in calling him out, but you’re right. Deleted, blocked, gone!

[–]ASeaOfQuotesFDS Apprentice 12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is partially why the video call before going out on any date is recommended, so you can see the person and know what to expect. If he is hiding something it will become painfully obvious. You can ask to see his outfit on the call, “Oh, put the phone down, I want to see what you’re wearing!” If he came to the phone date in his holey tighty whities or he’s trying to hide a beer gut, the vibe will be so sketch as he refuses and you don’t have to waste anymore time.

[–]WatzooFDS Newbie 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d second this. Video call.

[–]Foomama48FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good idea, I hadn’t thought of that but will do moving forward!!

[–]MadamLeFayFDS Apprentice 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep, just come right out and ask him for one and also stipulate that he must be holding up today's newspaper with the date clearly visible so you know it's recent. Otherwise, Mr. Quarantine Eighty will just use an old full-body pic. If he puts up a fuss, tell him you don't want to be catfished by FaTtIes...

[–]Foomama48FDS Newbie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg, Quarentine80!😂 I just moved on, I was getting caught up in calling him out but it’s not worth it.

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