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[–]talldrankofH2OFDS Newbie92 points93 points94 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oop I definitely did that before & never again
[–]willowgrowingrootsFDS Disciple82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Any excessive writing (or anything else excessive) about your partner is a bad sign. If you constantly need to distract your mind or worse, convince yourself constantly it’s all good—it isn’t.
[–]chateauduchatFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m actually writing a spy thriller novel based on my experience dating a narcissistic ex.
Spoiler: he is exposed as a predator and dies a slow and painful death. The end
[–]willowgrowingrootsFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ooo sounds good! Just to be clear I meant excessive writing (and thoughts) during the relationship (which is a bad sign imo)
[–]chateauduchatFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha yes I know! I was just being silly 😂
[–]SuccessfulShow5Pickmeisha™️76 points77 points78 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg I started doing that halfway into my last relationship in my iPhone notes!!!! This is sooo true
[–]imyoursoulmateFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I most recently made a cons list after my recent breakup to motivate me not to go back to him. I ended up running out of paper 😬.
[–]colorfulkindnessFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for you. Nothing like putting it down in black and white to remind yourself and solidify your decision. 💜
[–]DCPoisonIvyFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here, I had to write my list for my ex under his contact... it worked though! 😅
[–]greenishpixieFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did it too. So painful to read that even now. Like girrrlll where your head at? Open your eyes and RUN
[–]CorruptSoulGemFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Con: I have to write pros and cons lists to figure out if it’s worth it to be with him.
(If it’s gotten that far then no, it isn’t.)
[–]randomgirlimokFDS Apprentice17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh wow, I actually did this when I was considering divorce. So glad I did it, I would still be miserable. There are no pros in the end.
[–]GraveyardH2020FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea I did this.
[–]to_learn_to_flyFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, so true. And I'm ashamed to admit that even though my list had more cons than pros LOL, I stayed with my ex for a few more months. Girl, even if your list has only one con, but it's something essential and important to you, all his pros are not worth it.
[–]CharTheCatMomFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been there.
Cringeworthy and a bag of yikes.
[–]hyacinthgirl95FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ross from friends did this lol
[–]nicatinaFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Rachem?!"
[–]hyacinthgirl95FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂👌🏼
[–]RedRetrogradeFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Interesting that this advice is coming from someone who calls herself “HentaiHunny.” She sure is one strangely based kinkmeisha. Must be speaking from experience.
[–]talldrankofH2OFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Took a look at her account, def not someone I’d be taking advice from either
[–]ThesociodarkFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She is right in this one, I give her this, but I hate every username with the word "hentai" in it in the first place lol.
[–]talldrankofH2OFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ll give her that, she is right the time 🤣
[–]thegrrr8pretenderFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh. Once upon a time I did this. Knew it would be bad. Did it anyways. Was bad. Ugh.
[–]typeadhdFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn I did this I thought I was the only one
[–]liz2eFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wig.
[–]tigergeishaFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ouch, this hit hard 😅
[–]Celia2000NRZThrowaway Account0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ROSS AND RACHEL
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i even did this for a friend that ghosted me... yikes
[–]Salt_SatisfactionFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well okay, this hit me like a truck.
Not a toxic relationship but definitively one I should have ended before it did.
[–]ChristianGirl93FDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m dead. That’s so true. And usually the good qualities are things I could find in my dog tbh
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So true, just timing when to break up... ⏱
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