I planned and just executed a big holiday event for work- via zoom. It just ended and it was a huge success!! I realized after that I never really let myself be proud of myself. For 15 years I was married to a LVM, and the last three years I lived with and engaged to one. (Finally learned my lesson on LVM’s!!). In all that time I never celebrated my victories or successes. I always downplayed them because either the guy didn’t care, didn’t get it, or had something going on in his life.

But tonight, I kicked ass and did a really great job, I coordinated a massive event for our office and everything went off perfectly, everyone had a great time, the feedback already has been incredible. I am really proud of myself, I am a bad ass woman with so much to offer, so much to be proud of, so much I’m capable of - I don’t feel sad about not having anyone to share it with, I feel RELiEVED that I don’t have anyone to steal my sunshine tonight!!!

Just wanted to put this out to the universe. I have to start celebrating myself more, promoting myself more- we all do!! I think I’m realizing if I don’t start doing it even I won’t realize how valuable I am and how much I deserve to be valued. This is what it’s all about!