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[–]Gambit12345FDS Newbie661 points662 points663 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Go with the flow” aka “looking for someone to let me fuck with no expectations”
[–]shakethat_milkshakeKINKmeisha™️ on parole163 points164 points165 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I have a little screenshot gallery of my OLD hall of shame and there’s one hinge profile that answers the prompt “swipe right if...” with: “you’re trying to have fun and not take things too seriously. But still open to more serious connections.”
lol. It’s my favorite.
[–]afrodeasyakFDS Newbie71 points72 points73 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Make it make sense 😂
[–]shakethat_milkshakeKINKmeisha™️ on parole145 points146 points147 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“First we fuck, then I’ll ask you to be my gf if I actually like you. 🥰 either way, I’ll waste your time.”
[–]ms_monquisFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am left wondering whether I'm the one who has no idea what the word "dating" means, because I see this SO often. "Looking to meet and see where it goes." How is that not dating? Is that the secret language in there? That it actually means "looking to fuck until I decide what I want"?
[–]shakethat_milkshakeKINKmeisha™️ on parole1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are absolutely correct. It’s why we vet for a long time. When men use words, they err toward the most convenient meaning of those words lol but inconsistencies in their actions and how they carry themselves are harder to be weaselly about.
[–]BreesashaFDS Newbie300 points301 points302 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Right! I wouldn't waste my time on someone who's first comment is "go with the flow". I had a guy tell me that 2 years ago pre- FDS when I was very much a pickmeshia and I entertained it for far too long. After the flow didn't progress into any sort of commitment then I promptly ghosted him. Go with the flow is code for a permanent FWB situation.
[–]orchid447FDS Apprentice56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That makes a lot of sense, a relationship is something you get to build; which is very antithetical to "going with the flow"
[–]BreesashaFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Especially because the flow has no end point, no check in, nothing. Now if a guy said, let's try talking/casually dating for a month then we can see if it's gonna be a relationship", it's less suspicious. I can understand being cautious at first. But not "going with the flow'.
[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or "be spontaneous" but only his way...
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie274 points275 points276 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She’s going with the flow, of course!
[–]MiaNaimFDS Newbie227 points228 points229 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sis flowed away, lol
[–]little_pillFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
K, well I’m just gonna flow tf up outta here. Peace.
[–]PengtingcalledmeFDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love that
[–]Davina33FDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣
[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice688 points689 points690 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Yes girl, walk out / block and delete. Pro tip: dont put that you want a serious relationship in your OLD bio and when you match with a man you need to be the one to first ask him "what are you looking for?" Other wise he will copy your answer so he can have his shot.
When you ask him "what are you looking for" red flags are ambitious answers. If he doesn't know, just is looking to see what happens, just wants to vibe, or hangout, if he wants a cuddle / gamer buddy, if hes just looking for a plus one for some fancy event... just walk out and block. A grown man needs to know what he wants
[–]RiasXgremoryXFDS Disciple323 points324 points325 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes to all of this. Men WILL lie, cheat, steal and play games to get exactly what they want at any cost. Never show them your cards.
[–]DarwinsLittleBirdFDS Newbie222 points223 points224 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That’s right! Don’t show him your cards. Make him tell you!
I asked my SO when we started dating what he was looking for and he said “marriage, children, the whole 9 yards”.
Then he asked me what I was looking for and I said, “Someone to go skiing with.”
We just spent our third Christmas together :)
[–]GertrudethecuriousFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So did you ski together?
[–]DarwinsLittleBirdFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes, just about every weekend during season :)
[–]GertrudethecuriousFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Awww that's really lovely!
[–]DarwinsLittleBirdFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you <3
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Aw this is so cute 🥺
[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What do you put in your bio? I usually just keep mine empty
[–]StrainingMyNeuronsFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A male friend of mine told me that men usually see empty bios as “hit me up for anything”. But then again, my girl friend said that she doesn’t put anything, because “her info is none of the strangers’ business”, and she’s been in a LTR now with a decent guy for a while. I’d say you should at least put some things you’re interested in and one or two things that are important to you. I’ve got “I’m looking for someone who also loves nature, values education and is financially responsible”. You can fake the nature part, but you can’t really fake having a University degree and a job requiring it, nor you can hide being broke for too long. Well, in theory it’s all possible, but in reality most men won’t be bothered to go to such lengths.
[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can give a ballpark of ideas and a ballpark of your line of work. Here's an example: hi, I work in accounting and im originally from New York. I love traveling, play the Flute, and paint. I really enjoy Ramen restaurants.
You shouldn't ever say what you're looking for in a bio, have the exact town or specifics of where you live, but it can be fun if you moved to somewhere far like Lousiana, and let's say you're originally from New York. Its good to mention some hobbies or okay to mention if you have a pet. I personally love cooking and baking but I stopped pitting those in my bio because too many LVMs see me as a potential free personal chef ie "hey you should make me dinner" and "x is my favorite food you should make it for me" 🥴 so I no longer mention cooking/baking. If it comes up when chatting i turn it on them and treat it like the basic skill that it is and try to see if they know how to cook (a lot of guys dont/won't cook).
[–]Marigold-inkFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hobbies, interests, and lifestyles you don’t mind sharing publicly.
[–]ChillodyFDS Newbie126 points127 points128 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I like this meme. This is a wholesome meme. 😊😊
[–]posprovPickmeisha™️112 points113 points114 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She went with the flow, of her own path
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist99 points100 points101 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! And no more “I’m looking for a relationship ideally, but only if it’s right” BS. That’s just a way for them to test drive you, and once your newness have worn off, tell you “it’s not working”
[–]suspended_animation_FDS Newbie66 points67 points68 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He did say that he didn't want a relationship... She was giving him what he asked for by walking away
[–]GeorgerobertfrancisFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Except if you tell him you want a relationship he’ll totally lie and agree to get what he wants and then just not do it.
Sad trombone.
[–]fairywakesFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I’m deliberately ignoring your wants and needs and still tryna lay pipe.”
😷
[–]AmazonArtemisFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saving this as a reminder!!
[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
These memes are killing me lol
[–][deleted] 30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boy bye. Never hesitate to use the block button.
[–]uselesssdataFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Where are these drawings coming from? I see them everywhere lately.
[–]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Twitter, they're called wojaks
[–]uselesssdataFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you
[–]millionssomethingFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"I'm here for a good time not a long time"
[–]StrainingMyNeuronsFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
-any dude insisting on unprotected sex with randos.
[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ll never understand this myopic bullshit. If a guy tells me he’s just up for “fun and frolics” (I’ve actually gotten that one on OLD), I don’t try to convince him to do it my way and consider a relationship, I unmatch.
[–]spicyspaFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Why she is going with the flow. And this means flowing off and away.
[–]Mysterious_Midnight7FDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just wanted to say I love these!
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[–]StrainingMyNeuronsFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not idiots, they know very well what they’re doing. It’s benefiting them.
[–]anonymous_monkey2FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good point.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep, no games..
That dude looks like he has microcephaly 😂😕
[–]StrainingMyNeuronsFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
IQ lower than his shoe size.
[–]WkndwhorechataFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Floating away now. Bye.
[–]glittersparkles212FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Flowing away from your bs
[–]IAteTheDragonFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha, I love how this girl is on her way out of the screen in every meme😄 Queen AF. We should seriously get her a name for this move.
[–]Astral_weaverFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Them: "Where are you going?" You: "I'm going with the flow. Away from you."
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