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[–][deleted] 123 points124 points125 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Guys like that never change, so don't waste time trying. It just makes the guy even more lazy and dependent. If a guy is like that, run away and don't look back.
As for dating fellons or dealers, no way. That's just plain dangerous. Besides, there are jobs where they do checks on your partners background and could deny you a job because they did something illegal.
[–]SangeliaStorckFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Plus, it gets tiring after a while hearing a broken record. Been there. My ex refused to change. Found out almost at the four year mark of our marriage that he was also a pedo with 300 pictures of filth aka child porn. Spine got shiny and I got rid of him. He had been downloading them on our computer.
[–]SewudFDS Apprentice25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my. Proof that dating a man is so much more dangerous. What are the chances that a guy's wife will secretly have illegal stuff on their computer? Very slim. But dating a low value man comes with all sort of danger.
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow. Guess it shows you don't know who you marry until something like that happens. How awful finding out he was into that sort of terrible thing and putting it onto your shared computer. That's really messed up.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My mother married my father knowing that he had a child with a 13 year old girl when he was 24.
[–]Dismal-CranberryFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hope you reported that piece of shit to the police.
[–]SangeliaStorckFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I did.
[–]deasnataly3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Am a banker, I can confirm this that when you apply for loans or open saving accounts and you have a felon in your 1-2 inner circle (family circle) you are profiled as high risk.
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I noticed that nobody hates LVM more than HVM.
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[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! They go in on them. And they HATE it when LVM gets rewarded with anything.
[–]jmaydizzleFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wish I’d heard of the three outfits sooner in my life. So applicable
[–]RareSorbet34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
/r/90DayFiance
/r/LoveAfterLockup
[–]SewudFDS Apprentice28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good point. My family never knew my boyfriends were LVM because they never asked questions. Even a LVM can shut his mouth and put on a shy smile when around the parents. If he says nothing then the parents will be like "oh he's nice". What part was nice? The part where he was able to smile for an hour without throwing a tantrum? Standards for men are low low low and no one checks how they act in private.
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never noticed this! My husband was quiet too. However, any female who was quiet was "a downer", "not participating", and "why did she even come"...
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex boyfriend would literally wear the same pajama pants for months straight before washing them, it was disgusting.
[–]dezrayyyyFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely.
[–]SangeliaStorckFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Folks don't change unless they want to. Best to leave the dude. And find someone else. Someone who is worthy of your love. Someone who is willing to change for you. Just remember as well. What is good for the gander is good for the goose. Both need to change to what they would want that person to be like for them.
[–]realityhofoshoFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Watch HBO’s The Sentence. Then reevaluate.
[–]giniepFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
UGH wish I saw this in high school
[–]FDSdiscipleFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh why does this resonate so much with me
[–]onemoredaydreamFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AHHH this hit too hard.
3 years ago me was a mess with QUESTIONABLE taste.
[–]saint-jezebelFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cold blooded
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