I have no idea why, I just can't. I don't like the idea of just sending random messages to guys, or them messaging me (and tons of other women) when the likelihood is that they just want sex.

I think that might be the thing that really puts me off. I've tried online dating but it never lasts for a few days and I've never met a guy on a dating app.

Coincidentally, I've dated a man that I met online that lived in another country, but when we met the chemistry was so different, which again puts me off from online dating.

But I don't really have an option to date in person either. The men that approach me are usually much older, and just not my type. I feel like if I want to date I need to use online dating but the concept of it is so off-putting.